I am so sorry this is happening to you! You don't deserve it. It sounds like she doesn't want to be a part of it. I know this may sound harsh, but I would just ignore her. It sounds like she just wants attention and you should be the one getting all the attention right now. If she is acting this way now, just think how she will act when she becomes part of the BP. I would just email her and tell her that when she wants to talk to contact you and that you are not mad at her (even though you might be). That way it leaves the ball in her court and she can't say that you never tried to reach out to her, blah, blah, blah....Good luck girl and if she doesn't become part of the BP-oh well sounds like the rest of the BP is on the ball!