I am having an AHR too. We will have around 250 people there and it is going to be huge. We are having it 2 weeks after we get married in Mexico. I bought a second wedding dress to wear and we are going to have it catered with beer and wine being served. Also, we are having a bride's cake, groom's cake, huge ice sculpture of a fish on a wave, dance floor with DJ and maybe a band too....Whew! I do feel like I am planning a second wedding too! It is stressful, but I know it will be worth it!