I met my DH in a bar 24 years ago. My girlfriend took me there to meet another guy that was playing in the band. I thought the guy was ugly and spotted Rob with his leather jacket and cute black hat. I asked my gf who he was and she said he was the brother of the drummer. Come to find out, the drummer used to date my sister a few years back but I never met his brother! The rest is history, albeit a weird one, we got married in 1990, divorced in 1998 and remarried in 2008!