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I didn't wear a veil but it looks nice. I like the beaded edge and I don't think $30.00 was much.

Good luck to you. I will make sure to send people your way.

I think all of us have gone thru some of this during the planning. It will all work out and you will have a beautiful wedding. Sometimes we have to compromise to get what we actually want. The dance floor and DJ are small things just keep the overall picture in mind and the final result...you will be marrying the man of your dreams!

I don't use a hairdryer much, but unless it cooks, cleans, and does my homework I don't think I could spend this much on a blowdryer!

I love the dress. I'm so glad you found one! It will look great on you.

I absolutely love it! It actually looks very "beachy" the way it flows. I say wear it!

I am so sorry this happened to you. Keep us posted.

Quote: Originally Posted by ksandahl Congratulations! We're neighbors...I live in Lincoln, CA. Anyway, I just got married on 12/12/08 and I worked with Rachel Hansen from Weddings in Paradise. I had a great experience and would recommend their company in a heartbeat. I believe Tammy is one of their most requested coordinators. Have you decided your venue or hotel yet? Feel free to email if you have any questions, want to see pics, etc - [email protected]. Have a great time in Cabo - you'll love it! =) Kristen OMG, You got married on 12/12 and have not posted pics yet? Post, Post, Post

Those look great!

Quote: Originally Posted by MarieSam I think it definitely depends on the type of relationship you have with your parents ~ are you a close knit family? how important is it for them to be there? The other gals bring up good points too ~ why can't they go? Of course if it's illness or physical limitations there's truly not much that can be done. But if it's a matter of schedule conflict or monetary issues, maybe some tinkering of the date or location/venue can solve the problem. This is truly a subjective matter that really depends on your own situation and set of circumstances. Personally, FI or I would not go forward on our DW plans without our parents ~ we both have very close-knit families and it means a lot to have them there. We both understand and appreciate that this day is about us, but we also know that the people we are today derives from the foundation that our parents have built for us. In our circle, a marriage is not only a bonding of our union but of our families, and luckily our families LOVE each other and have continued to vacation together for years now. So this is really a celebration we want to share with everyone there!! But I think in every wedding, there are "must-haves" on the guest list, for us, our immediate families happen to be atop that list. Are your parents a "must have"?? Very well said, MarieSam. I totally agree with you. My FIL is in a wheelchair and if he would not have been able to make it, we would have cancelled.

I like it! You could always add beads or something if you want.

Men say the darndest things!!!

I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. Just take comfort in knowing that you did have an opportunity to have your father/daughter dance, even though it was not on your wedding day. He will certainly be with you on that day in your heart. I lost my mother 12/28/08 and today is the anniversary of her memorial service. Even though I miss her so much, she is with God and no longer in pain. I setup a memorial table at my reception with memory candles of my father, my mother and DH's mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

It is beautiful! I love it.

to post my Pro-pics. So much has been going on since we got back that I totally forgot to post these when I got them. We did not have a professional photog, but on of the ladies from A Wedding For You, Inc. took these pictures and sent them to me on a CD. I did include many of them on my DIY photo slideshow. I do apologize ladies for the oversight. They are not as good as many of the ones that I have seen on this forum, but they didn't come out to bad. I just wish the DH would have been a little more willing to participate. He hates getting his picture taken. http://picasaweb.google.com/sylandro...eat=directlink

Amanda, you know we are here to help if you need it. Although, Canada is a pretty far drive! LOL. No, seriously, if you need any help, just ask. Just Don't stress!

Amanda, you know we are here to help if you need it. Although, Canada is a pretty far drive! LOL. No, seriously, if you need any help, just ask. Just Don't stress!

Great pics! I loved your dress. It looked like you had so much fun. I am so glad you kept your Steelers fever when you moved to Texas! I to am originally from Pittsburgh.

Yari, I don't know how I missed this but your pictures are amazing. I can't stop looking at them! Everything looked wonderful and your daughter is so sweet.

I like the ivory best with the chocolate pants.

This sounds as bad as my seamstress issues. Just make sure to document everything, dates, times, ect. Yes, I think a professional seamstress would have noticed that things did not "line up" correctly.

I got mine online, but you can get them from Macy's, Nordstrom, Von Maur and sometimes you can check JoAnne Fabric.

Our wedding budget was about $5,000. I don't have an exact total. Here is where I saved money: 1. I found my dress for $100.00 and alterations were $40.00 2. used timeshare points for our accommodations and the ceremony 3. A lot of DIY projects, however, I wish I had researched a little more on the paper I used. I found it a lot cheaper after I started the invites and programs. This was around $100.00 4. Used a local vendor package for flowers, ceremony, photos, license $625.00 5. Used shells from the beach on a previous site visit. 6. Booked cruise for the honeymoon. $1800. 7. I think the Oot bags cost me a lot. I am glad I did it because my guests loved them. I tried to put useful things in the bags instead of throw away items. Things such as flip flops, coffee, water, etc. I also made starfish cookies the day before we left and used them at my Bachelor/bachelorette party. So, yes it is possible to have a very nice wedding on a small budget.

Your pics are great and you looked so beautiful!

Those are fabulous! I love the one with you standing in the water looking down.