First, let me give you a little background. My younger sister's FI is such a selfish and controlling person but she doesn't realize it. On my wedding day, my niece missed her flight from Dayton to Ft. Lauderdale and was scheduled to catch the next one that would get her in at 6:30 pm. Well, the wedding started at 4:30 pm and my sister and FI were there. He was video taping the ceremony (how nice of him since he thinks I don't like him and he hates my DH).
Everything was going great and they came to the restaurant and enjoyed cocktail hour with us. Well, around 6:00 they left to pick up my niece from the airport. I didn't notice until dinner was over, that they never returned. When I asked my sister what happened she said there was an accident on I95 and traffic was backed up so they just went to get something to eat because her daughter was hungry. Well, that was fine except she called my older sister, who was at the restaurant, and my older sister told her that they would hold dinner for them until they returned.
The following day, I asked my niece to tell me the real story and as it turned out, my sister's ignorant FI wanted to go to Miami so that's where they went instead of coming back to the restaurant. He was telling her "well you are going to be spending the next five days with them anyway on the cruise". He gave her some kind of sob story about him feeling uncomfortable because her family doesn't like him. WTF, well I am the only one that probably shows him that I don't like him. We have had some words before, but this wedding was not about him he was just invited by proxy.
I can't believe that my sister allowed that to happen. Why did she go along with what he wanted? I'm just not sure what to do. My niece gave me this information in confidence, so I can't let her know that I know the truth, but I am so hurt by what happened. I would like to discuss it with her but I don't know how. He has been a thorn between us for two years now and I am so glad he didn't come on the cruise with us. I would have pushed him overboard.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.