Quote: Originally Posted by chickadee024 Here is my confession, hope it's not too personal:
I feel like joining a convent.
It seems like the FI is always in the mood, and I am not! All of you ladies are not alone. You are still so young and we as women have so much on our plates. It seems as if a lot of life burdens are placed on the women. Raising the kids, cleaning the house, making sure the hubby is feeling good! and now we also HAVE to have fulltime jobs. Life is to short, as we all know, and I have learned from my mother's illness that you have to take time out for yourself. Women do not just turn on and off like a faucet. Men do. Just know that you are not alone.
My confession is this: My husband had prostate cancer about 4 years ago and due to the radiation treatment, we now have to plan in advance to be intimate. The equipment just doesn't wake up like it used to! Sometimes this is very hard to adjust to. I am so used to just "doing it" whenever the mood strikes and now I have to schedule an appoinpment with him so "johnny" will be ready!