yah but they are past the final two now is what im saying.. he got his money. He could break up with her and go on his own way.
and i guess I would have to disagree with your last paragraph b/c thats exactly what happened with me and my fiance. He wasnt ready to commit so we broke up and he did his thing, only to come back to me afterwards and i coudl have cared less. I said go ahead, see what else is out there. And actually, out of ALL my gfs, only one of them got married without breaking up. I think thats very true life. (unfortunately!)