Dont worry, I def didnt take offense and I am sure Nat didnt either! I get looked at in disbelief when people ask how many people are in our wedding party, followed by 'so is everyone just gonna stand up front with you' hahah. Sure why not
We did invite all of our family and friends though so i could see how it would be hard for you since you are only invited your closest group to begin with. Dont stress too much, its not worth it!