Alyssa I think that's perfect. Everyone likes either beer or wine so they will be able to have something to drink. Don't sweat it. Your friends are there because they love you and will not have a problem with beer and wine! Have a wonderful wedding. Can't wait to hear about it.
Welcome Brigit. I found it hard to find a place too. We finally decided on Puerto Vallarta but even that we're spending about $15,000 for 40 people. We were hoping for under $10,000 too. Good luck.