we have been having a similar situation. We have decided to go just us, and have a reception afterwards. the complaints that friends and family were having were becoming too much for my fiance. I am at peace with the fact that some people can come and some people will not. we are deciding about having just parents come and his sister, but the thought of just us too sounds awsome to me at this point! Remember it is your day, and it is about the two of you!