I cant be bothered with any of it either! That's why we chose to go away and get married. My wedding dress is not expensive. Im only using the resort's photographer. I could care less about decorations (the beach/ocean are sufficient enough for me). We arent having a DJ, or doing any cake cutting, garter toss, speeches...etc. Im not doing favours or centrepieces. Much like you I have some OC tendencies in my personality and am normally a super organized, control and neat-freak. When it comes down to the wedding... I cant be bothered. Everyone has a different idea for what their wedding should be, mine is just simple. No frills. All that really matters is that my FI thinks Im the perfect bride. Dont stress, just because you want it simple.