Quote: Originally Posted by KellyMN I hate to say it... but if people are going to stay at a different hotel, they might as well not come. That's what I always say. It's harsh, but the destination wedding isn't JUST about the wedding.... it's about sharing the whole vacation with family and friends. I wish people would realize that! Personally, I think it's a long trip just to go to a ceremony!
A majority of our guests will be staying at our resort. I know my sister had good intentions because she knew my other sister wouldn't be able to afford the trip and was saving her the cost of the hotel, they just have to pay for their flights. I mean if they're saving that much $150 a couple shouldn't matter all that much. We're paying for our parents- all of cour friends and photographer are staying with us, so we won't be seperated all that much.I really wanted my sisters at the resort just because I wanted them as my bridesmaids, and they would involve them being there a lot. And that's way too much in day pass fees.