I Just Want To Add To This Forum,you Have To Understand Mama's Are Always Going To Be Overly Protective Of There Sons, They Feel No Woman Is Good Enough For Them.. I Know This Is Hard, Kill Em With Kindness,play Her Game Take Her Out To Lunch Or To The Mall ,have A One On One With Her Give Her Some Flowers, Ask Her What Is It She Dont Like About You, Actually Put Her On The Spot,she's Not Only Lonely But Miserable, Find Her A Date, Some One To Keep Her Occupied...not Matter What Her Son Is Her Baby,if That Dont Work Call Over Some Of Your Friends And Have A Get Together Every Time She Pops Up After Awhile She Will Get Tired,always Have Your Back Up Company. Lol Good Luck I Hope This Helps U Out A Little, P.s. Dont Argue With Your Mate Its Not Good,dont Let Mil Win The Battle That Is What She Trying To Do Anyway.