Hello Ladies...so I am having a conflict (with myself and with FI).
We have decided to get the legal marriage done before we head to Punta Cana, that is not an issue...the issue is how to do it. Only one set of our grandparents are actually going to get to go to our DW...so I thought it would be nice to invite all the Grandparents to witness the legal marriage in Charlotte.
In my head, I was thinking it could be a very casual, short ceremony, maybe in a park or something where we are legally married and then go to brunch/lunch/dinner with everyone, so it could be special for them. FI wants to just go to the court house and sign the papers.
He is trying so hard to see it how I see it, but he doesn't want anything to take away from our DW. He says he thinks it will be weird to "get married" twice in a couple of weeks. I think it is very sweet how he feels, but I'm not sure what to do. I can totally see how he feels, and just signing the papers would be just fine with me...but I guess I was just trying to have something for our granparents to take part in...and watching us sign papers through a window just doesn't seem that special
Any ideas or suggestions?