GREAT points Erin! Thank you so much!
We are hoping to turn the cocktail party into a bit of a dance party probably around like 8ish...but if the cupcakes and s'mores are available at that time people can snack on them, dance, snack, dance, repeat. If they want...
Good point about putting the leftovers on the table. I was going to do 2 pieces of everything per person...depending on cost.