Remember, this is supposed to be FUN!!! The whole house buying thing, and the wedding. I definetely know how stressful it can be moving and buying a house. (I work at a busy RE/MAX office) Also, we all know how stressful wedding planning can be as well. Anytime I find myself not having fun with the wedding I take a break and do something else. Me and Bo (FI) agreed from the beginning that this whole thing would be fun and very low stress. I mean that's the whole point of having a DW right? I know vacations are expensive so I think you should treat yourself to a nice hour long massage, and take time doing whatever it is you love to do. Seriously, take a TIME OUT and stop and think about everything you are greatful for and appreciate in your life. It's so easy to forget these things, and get caught up in the chaos and stress instead. Imagine all the bridezillas who become sooo stressed out they are ready to snap the entire pre-wedding, then even more stressed the day of, and they walk down that isle and don't even remember it because they're so busy being miserable. Don't let that happen!!! Always remember you deserve time for yourself and only you can make that time Relax Girl!