I agree... the last time I was an MOH - that cost me... a total of about 6 days off of work (vacay time), a couple hundred for an ugly burnt raisin dress, 3 (yes 3) showers that I was expected to go to, a bachelorette party that the Mother of the Bride requested that i hold, for which I forked out nearly $2500 (the other BM was the Brides sister who was in school and used that for an excuse not to help financially) + travel to her weddding (600kms one way, 2 nights at a ritzy hotel, food, gas, etc), $200 for my hair and makeup... wow... i could go on and on... I guess that brings me to my point which is.. I will not tolerate anyone mentioning the cost of our DW.