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Wow. I teared up. I would have been a blubbering mess. Welcome and congrats!

Harty every time I read one of your posts I smile. I realized that he was "takin the piss" and spoke to him. We re negotiated. I'm happy with it now. thanks girls!

Adoreable. I sort of feel like I want every idea I see on this forum! You ladies are somethin'

Okay. did you know that moving ranks as the highest stress inducing think people go through next to death? Of course you are feeling crazed. On top of that there is the wedding/elopment stuff. Move tomorrow and give yourself a week to settle even just a little before making any major wedding decision. I feel you though. The plate is full!!

We all know relationships are a lot of work and getting through the tougher times always makes you stronger as a couple. I agree that it is perfectly normal to have doubts and fears as the date gets closer. We are human and if it's a first marriage there is fear of the unknown and other issues that come up for people regarding their own family, parents etc. Re: "feeling trapped"- have you asked him specifically why? Is it the wedding planning? Is it a fear that something will change between the two of you for the negative? Is he trapping himself becuase he has expectations of himself about being a "good husband"? If you communicate as openly as possible (which is a challenge) you may learn something that you didn't know about him or yourself. That has been my experience. When I say something out loud it's like a discovery. Re:cleaning and messiness- I know that for me it's like code for something else. He knew that you weren't a neat freak when he fell in love with you. Is it bothering him more now because those othe rissues are unresolved? If you want to leave for a few days- i will just say that personally I wouldn't do it. In a way it's running away from the problem. I don't mean that to be offensive but I just know that's my instinct. I have been fighting that since I was 10 years old. I just want to go away for a little while and "think it through" or whatever. My advice is talk- really talk. If you can't then maybe a few couples sessions with a counselor or pastor may help. The objective point of view really helps. something to think about... I'm sorry you are having a rough time right now.

These are great ideas. I was drawing a blank when FI asked me about the monogram. I was thinking.. "Um cause they're pretty... "

I love seeing the monograms on people's signatures but how did you or are you planning to use them for the wedding? This is what I have seen so far: - labels for chapstick -ironed on a tshirt/oot bag/maybe a mug? just wanted some ideas... Thanks!

I'm so sorry that you have had such a frustrating time with Azul and the WC. I Second what Becks said about cc'ing the manager on the email. You may want to run down the list of things that have already "gone wrong" just so that they know who you are. Also be sure t o remind them that you are bringing 40+ family and friends to their hotel and giving them business. Also, I think if you paid for a weddig package the ceremony gazebo would be the one thing that is included! I'm not sur eif you did that or not though. Either way, it seems like there have been several miscommunications and it seems to be Fabio's confusion. That sucks. I'm sorry

I really like the wording actually. I think it's funny, wedding related and cute. I have been sitting here trying to come up with something else and am stuck. I'm sorry I couldn't be any help! I will post later if somehting inspiring strikes.

That was my thought. I don't feel right editing it as I go becuase I can't just type- I would need to read for content. Thanks Rebecca

Hi Ladies, While I am in grad school and doing my internship I am taking on odd jobs here and there. My friend hooked me up with this guy who needed someone to transcribe a book that his friend wrote on a typewriter to a regular word document. I googled rates for something like this and got$1.50-$2 per page. I decided on $1.50pp and was told that he needed the first 3 chapters by thurs. This was on a Friday night so that's less than a week which was fine. Then he leaves me a voicemail asking me to make any grammatical changes because he sees lots of mistakes and he will be showing those first 3 chapters to an agent in LA. At first I was thinking sure no big deal but the thing is a disaster. There are so many mistakes and it's taking me a lot longer. FI says that now that is copy editing not transcribing what's on the page. Additionally he requested those chapters for Tues (2 days ago) Since I am still working on the rest of it- it's about 300 pages- how much would you charge? $1.50 doesn't seem like enough....

They look great Rebecca!

Welcome Freckles! I am in a similar boat as you- I have that resort business out of the way and now just need to start. I created a wedding website and I just received my STD's and plan on mailing them out this weekend. Basically I just read the boards and get some great ideas. I was just incredibly relieved when i finally picked a resort! Good luck with y our planning.

Hey there, Here are a few suggestions: - Asia de Cuba ( nice for large groups but don't think a private room is avail.) Family style portions - Mad Dog and Beans on Stone st downtown is a fun mexican place. It's a party atmosphere but the upstairs is more chill. laidback. Guys love it here. - Paris Commune - they do private parties in the rouge wine bar downstairs. Cute vibe, good food. Fashion/design crowd If i think of anymore I'll let ya know!

They look great! The bags look really sturdy. I'm sure your guests will love them. Good job!

Martha that is such a sweet dress! I think the sweetheart neckline will be great. I love the shoes too. I am a diehard DSW fan.

Lovely. It is really perfect for you!

You look beautiful and happy. Congrats!

That sounds like a blast. Girlfriends rock! Pole dancing is a workout for sure. I took classes at sfactor which is in NY and LA. Check it out. Aside from being a workout it is empowering and a great confidence booster. I highly recommend it!

i like the idea of the joint shower. The all women thing seems more like bachelorette material in my opinion.

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Wow. That article is disturbing. There are many things happening in the news lately having to do with kids and the "pack mentality". There was that case of the cheerleading squad beating the crap out of one girl, videotaping it and posting on you tube and also that group of nine 3rd graders that planned on killing their teacher and brought in handcuffs, knives and a gun. This is so frighthening. A pack mentality can be so influential when there are unstable people in the group. Adolescents especially are very much swayed by the group decision. It sounds like these girls were obviously lonely, possibly neglected and ignorant. It scares me to read these things becuase I can't even imagine having a kid that I would send to school. Crazy things are happening in schools everywhere- not just underpriveledged inner city areas. One of my internship sites works with young girls who have babies and are abandoned by their family and living in this home. They are all super angry- at the kids, at the guy, at themselves. There are so many issues to work through. It's sad really. It sounds simple but a lot of it really begins with what is happening at home and what their parents model. It's a lot of responsibility but it's true. Hoping this doesn't become a trend.

Is this just for the bride or is it for both? I get confused with all the parties involved. I wasn't planning on registering because we were hoping people would just come to mexico and I know most in my family give money for weddings but all my friends keep asking. Is this for a bridal shower? I don't expect two gifts so I guess I am a little confused. hmm thanks

cute! Thanks for the post

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