Quote: Originally Posted by lm1984 To those of you who have gotten married already, did you get a copy of the ceremony before the wedding? And if so, were you able to change things? Add things in? (ie. readings, sand ceremony, etc...) Yes you are able to change it and add to it. We pretty much wrote most of ours, well found ideas online and then sent it to the WC, we added the sand and hand ceremony and we each wrote something for each other and then did the traditional vows.