Congrats Mrs. Hansen!!! Can't wait to hear all about your wedding and see pictures!
We had the cocktail reception by the pool and we did the bar package with margarittas, beer and pina coloads as that was what most of our guests were drinking. That was $5 per person I believe they did charge us $3 for the kids as we had several, they did not compromise on the price for adults as they had to pay a staff to be at the bar so I understood that. Our guests who wanted something else tipped the bartenders and then they were able to get whatever they wanted.
I did use DJ Bob and I thought he was awesome for anyone looking for a DJ.