Ok lady's I need some serious advise on my MOH. We have been freinds for many years and was super excited for her to be my MOH. She was equally excited (for a while) She lives two and a half hours away so we dont get to see eachother a whole lot, but had done lots of talking on the phone and talked about lots of ideas back and forth for the wedding.
When my FI and I announced that we were going to have a destination wedding she was a little upset. We gave are bridal party the option to opt out, because ....... we get, not everyone has the $. But she said that she would go.
Then.... she dropped off the face of the planet and stopped returning my calls. She went through a hard time, her dog got super sick and her loser boyfreind lost his job and money was tight. She finally called me back after like 3.5 weeks of not returning my call. And she said that she didnt think that she could make it. I was a little upset and said I wish you hadnt avoided me and just told and we would work it out. Then I said it really important to me that your there and I will figure out a way. I talked to my dad and he said he would pay for her whole trip!! She said she couldnt take that and she would call me back. So a week later she called left me a voice mail and said she had the money and booked her trip.
We talked again about a week ago and I was talking about brides maids dresses, and she said "oh... I thought since you were doing a destination wedding we wouldnt have to do that" And I was like well..... If you would answer your damn phone we wouldnt have this problem.
So now she angry about "whatever", she keeps saying that nothing is wrong. and now is not interested in talking about the wedding, or helping out, or talking about dresses etc...... Im SUPER bummed about this. I want to call her and tell her to forget about and not come if this is how it is going to be.
I need some advise.
Sorry for the long vent, I'm just not sure what to do.