i confess that it's kinda aggravating me that my FI seems sorta unconcerned with the whole swine flu vs. our wedding thing. like "oh well." if people cancel, "oh well," if we'll have to scramble to move the location last minute, "oh well," if we might have to end up cancelling everything and just getting married at city hall, "oh well, it is what it is."
i mean, he's absolutely right in that there is really nothing we can do about this, and getting upset won't help, but geez, it's coming off like he could care less whether we got married at all! if nothing else, at least don't dismiss my feelings as me being "stupid" for getting all worked up over something i can't control.
in truth, he's kinda always like this. for instance, he thinks he actually "wins" arguments by keeping calm, cool, and collected while i scream and throw a fit. i always tell him, "just because i'm crazy doesn't mean i'm wrong!"