hi lindsay! there are plenty of married ladies who still hang around, myself included (and i've been married a year and a half)! <-- haha maybe i should get a life? there are a lot of the threads geared toward the "already married," but they aren't locked or private. most of them can be found in the chit-chat section: http://www.bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/list/50 the official shout box thread functions kinda like a chat-room and a lot of the ladies in there (probably the majority?) are already married. most of us had a void to fill once the wedding planning was over and done with, and wanted to keep in touch with the friends we'd made here in the process. many of us have met in real life or have added each other on facebook. also in the chit-chat area of the forum, you'll find TTC/mommies-to-be/parenting threads, recipes, home decorating, pets, book clubs, venting about in-laws/marital issues ... you name it! i hope you can find some threads that interest you now that you're a mrs! and good luck TTC!