One of my dearest friends had to break it to me tonight that she & her husband will most likely not be able to afford to come to Hawaii anymore. Their dog has been ill, several home issues have come up, and to top it off, they bought their tickets on ATA with their debit card, so they are still trying to get thier money back from that! She started crying & felt so bad for me. Can you believe that? I'm the one who's having people spend tons of money to come to the wedding & she thinks she's letting me down. She made me cry. I love her so much. It kills me that she feels bad.