I don't know why guys do this?!?!
FI lagged on asking my last two cousins to be his groomsmen -- why? I have no idea. I even told him just to shoot em an email, but his said he wanted to ask them in person, mind you one of them lives in NY, so of course I was like...um ok. Well about 2 weeks ago he finally asked them after my many requests, thankfully both cousins were honored he asked.
But like I said, guys are weirdos, lol. What can I say, they're all the same ~ strange in their ways, but we love them regardless