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I just had a co-worker come back from the Gran Caribe Real Resort in Cancun and he said they literally had no beach due to Hurricane Wilma. How are the other beaches in and around Cancun looking?

Have any of you worked with Ms. Ana Maria Cruz before?

Quote: Originally Posted by Mel Unfortunately. There are many times when I think he should deal with her in one way and he doesn't think it is the right way. I am the type that I want to kick her in her a** all the time when she is being stupid and he wants to too, but he thinks it out rationally, like that we can't do that b/c we will never see him again if we upset her or it will look bad when we go back to court. I don't get jealous over her, but I really hate how she treats their son, other people, and she has no morals at all. She would probably give her kids up just to make sure she had a sex life, oh wait....she abandoned her two boy with her parents to do that! I have to tell you that she is manic depressive, bipolar, (diagnosed for both) and a pathological liar, so you could imagine how hard she is to deal with. Mike and I just have to bite our tongues a lot when this situation arise and we have both had to learn how to approach and give advice without going off the deep end on each other. It is very tough and honestly if I wasn't so in love with him I'd leave (I encouraged him to track down his son and fight her in court and now look where it has gotten me!) We just pray every day that she gets hit by a bus, haha, but seriously we just keep saying that his son will understand one day when he gets older and will realize who his dad really is and how his mom has treated him and everyone else. He will be closer to us then and if it means going through hell for a few years, but we get to have a healthy relationship with him for the rest of his life once he realizes everything...I think it is worth it. I totally feel for you. I've had my experiences with some crazy ex's and it seems like one of mine is trying to screw with us now. It's funny what us parents will do for our kids, isn't it?

Quote: Originally Posted by mauraw i get my underarms done like every 3 weeks. it only hurts the first few times, and then its really honestly not bad. I agree, it only hurts the first few times. Yes, I've actually waxed many times before!

I'm just curious, do a lot of you women wax a lot? Does the pain really affect you that badly?

Quote: Originally Posted by Mel Oh how that sounds familiar... FI ex was forced to come to AZ from WA and bring their son for a visit, long long long story about custody battle, but anyway. She and her FI were picking up Brent (FI son) and she was complaining about how she got sunburned at the Desert Museum. She dropped her sleeve so he could see the tan lines and right in front of me and HER FI she shows my FI her boob. And simply replies opps. At this same time she is pregnant with a child with her FI. She has also had FI baby blanket since their son was born. FI asked for it back and she finally gave it back. I swear she had to have washed the thing in her perfume. Even after four or five washes I still can't get the smell out. She likes to send "just wanted to let you know how special you are to me" e-mail crap that gets forwarded around. And she always includes her first husband, who she has her oldest son with, my FI (her second husband), several other male friends and her FI. And if you are keeping up that makes three kids from three different fathers from three different marriages. NUTCASE...and like many have said before it doesn't get any better. My only advice is to be careful of how you FI approaches the topic of only calling when it is in regards to his son. I know the crazy ex that we have to deal with literally will not allow FI to see or speak to his son if he crosses her wrong in any way and she basically disappears for several months to the point that we have to have welfare checks by the police done on his son to make sure he is ok. This has been an ongoing battle that we have brought up in court but they always manage to take her side b/c she comes up with some cock-a-meme excuse of why she kept his son away. Mostly because "I offered for him to talk to his daddy but he didn't want to so I didn't force him to call and I don't make my son do anything he doesn't want to do" Just think when the child turns 18 no more. You don't have to give her your new numbers or addresses or emails. AHHHHH only 13 more grueling and long years for me! Does the situation with your fiance's ex ever put a strain on your relationship?

Quote: Originally Posted by mauraw i'm sure they could, but she did the ad anonymously and said it was a friend of hers who was having the problem and not her. she removed the photo after like 2-3 days, but heard through the grapevine that she ended up getting something like 100 calls from the ad. by the time the ex would have been smart enough to look for it, she took the ad down. it was well worth the lesson she taught her i think! Damn, I sort of wish that would happen to me just so I could do that.

Quote: Originally Posted by mauraw i just remembered i had a friend who went thru something similar.... she took the photo and posted something on craigslist with the photos the bitch had sent, and posted the story about how this woman must be desperate with a capital D, and put the ad in the women looking for men section, with the girls actual phone number. the girl never sent another photo again after that. Wow! That's awesome but really risky too. Can't someone press charges if their photo is posted on the web without their permission?

Quote: Originally Posted by jggm I am not sure how many weddings they hold a day. I am going this June for a site visit so I will get all the details. I know that there will be a wedding going on while I am there. I will give you all the details when I come back. Let me know if you have any other questions and I will try my best to get some answers. This is the only resort that I have really, really liked. All of its reviews on trip advisor are very consistant. Plus I have had several friends go here and absolutely love it. If you check out Sol Tamargo's blog you can find pictures of a wedding that took place here. It looks beautiful!!!!!!!!!!! Let me know what you decide!!! Thanks, Jen I do know this.....THEY DON'T HOLD ONLY ONE WEDDING A DAY! I'm actually going to be there before June hits, so I'll have to give you a review myself. =)

Knowing that I'm going to Vegas tomorrow for the weekend to see my fiancé.

Holy

Quote: Originally Posted by Allaballa Take a sexy photo of you and send it to her and call and say "ooopsy, that was ment for your hubby....please ignore" Don't know if this would make matters any better. With your luck, it'll probably end up on the web!

Still having trouble with this?

Quote: Originally Posted by mauraw sandra's wedding is this saturday, i think shes already gone. Opps, my bad.

Quote: Originally Posted by tlomlad WE went with dreams cancun 1st as lucy106 said the wedding gazebo is amazing its on the peninsula of cancun.... its almost complety surronded by water, 2nd it is not a hugh resort so the staff will get to know you and you the staff here is a link to our site visit review....http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t15401......and a link to a bunch of pics we shot while we were down there....http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t15854......hope this helps good luck planning and just let us know if you have any questions! Thanks, those have helped! =)

When is this supposed to take place? Do you know where in the aquarium you can get married?

Quote: Originally Posted by Melissa Radolli I hear ya! You will probably find a fair bit of availability if you are looking for something small (which I think you said it was just going to be the two of you!) Yeah, I think you're right. I can't remember the name of the wedding coordinator, but she asked me how many people would be involved before she gave me the available dates. So I'm sure that helped with something becoming available since it's only 2 months away!

Mind me asking what program and who designed this for you?

Quote: Originally Posted by Melissa Radolli That's awesome! Once you get a resort, date and time you will feel so relieved! Tell me about it. I'm so glad we steered away from our original plan to go to the Sandals Grande Antigua Resort. Blah!!!

Great news, they have some date & times that work out perfectly with our schedule!!!

Quote: Originally Posted by mpark46 I am definitely considering Excellence as well, although it sounds like they have several weddings per day, so you may be one of several brides getting married that day. I think somebody mentioned that they got a "wedding factory" feel from Excellence on their site visit... I'm also considering the Excellence Riviera Cancun. Are you sure they allow multiple weddings a day?

Quote: Originally Posted by Melissa Radolli It's possible although I don't know for sure - the reason we picked our resort is because they only do one wedding a day! Did you do a forum search? I just called a wedding coordinator at Excellence Riviera Cancun and left a message. Hopefully with me wanting to get married in the next couple months, this won't pose a problem.

I heard through the grapevine that Excellence Cancun Resort and Spa only allows one wedding a day. This can't be correct, can it?

Oh no worries, adult-only is what we're looking for. This trip doesn't include anyone outside of my fiance and I.

I was referring to this one.... Excellence Cancun Resort and Spa