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No way in hell would I let her go to them lol My dog was trained within a few weeks from a puppy, it takes time and maybe thats something they don't have that much of, my first thought is if they can't train a 1 1/2 yr puppy what chance have they got with a mill puppy! none lol The main thing is the basement - who the hell puts dogs in a basement!! they need fresh air and to be able to see whats going on outside. I know not everyone has a garden or a yard but even some dogs that are left in a kitchen have plenty fresh air and can move around and see whats going on. You have to go with your gut instinct and yours and the other lady's is obviously saying no go with it, you will be right.

Lol well thats one way of getting a job lol I wouldn't worry you normally find the novelty wears off with them and they go back to the hardworkers. As for FI I can't really blame him I probably wouldn't go either, he'll probably feel he's been judged all the time and the further he stays away from her the better, she has no ammo then.

Quote: Originally Posted by Christine we are afraid to get banned from petsmart or petco because they said he bit them once, and we need petsmart for the petshotel when we go out of town. If you are really that worried muzzle them and then do it, we have to muzzle the spaniel when he goes to the vets cause he acts like a wuss and doesn't like to be proded lol he is an ex army dog so I think he's had enough of that so I let him off but muzzle him lol

Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl Have you gotten your date confirmed? I read on another thread that someone couldn't get any of their choices for dates in May '09! She wanted May 15 as well. I'm so upset because I'm doing a legal civil wedding so I have to be there 4 business days before ... it really needed to be on a Thurs or Fri, and they are both taken! It's so disappointing that wedding dates can be all booked up before you can even get flight rates to know how much the trip will cost you and your guests! I thought looking a year in advance was good, but apparently not. Yep I have it confirmed, i got the TA to ring and demand an answer cause I couldnt get one lol I have been in touch with them since January about dates but my FI is in the army so I had to get confirmation he'd be in the country so as soon as I got that I requested the 15th and got it but that was Feb and a lot of dates were gone. Yeah I'm doing it the same as you its really difficult having to be there 4 days before, but its a risk as I might not get the flights and my TA said he cant get rates for the rooms and doesn't know if thats because its blocked out or booked! Keep at it you'll get it sorted x PS I play sax too not done it for a while tho, no decent bands in the UK and the ones that are about take themselves way too seriously lol

Take the cash and go jet ski-ing lmao Seriously you decide what YOU want to do not anyone else even if she is being kind enough to pay for it, its your wedding not hers x

No its a small power tool for grinding stuff FI uses it if he decides to be sad and built a model lol or for woodwork

Thanks for that I may just know the guy lol

I hope mine does she may get the hint I can't stand her and bog off and leave me alone pmsl

Other than the vet or a groomer its walks on hard concrete that keeps them really short. My rotty hates getting it done but will if i lie on her and pin her to the floor lol the spaniel forget it he'll have your face off lol

I'm ashamed to say that I bought the stuff on cd at least 2 years ago, proped in from of my stereo but have never listened to it lol Apparently it is amazing tho - maybe now is the time to try it

Hi welcome The short answer is yes lol and it won't get any better until you get closer to the wedding apparently! I'm in the same position as you but am hanging in there for a little bit longer. She does reply eventually it may take a few weeks tho

Quote: Originally Posted by JODEY I have already booked for November 2009, I booked in Jan this year but I did struggle with some TA's you just have to be a bit pushy, if they want your business then they will give you the quotes, out TA has also let us have the 2008 prices which is really good, so my advice is keep on at them, good luck ! Jodey who did you use? I can't get any prices until end of this month at the earliest of May 2009 no matter how hard I push and I've been pushing lol

We only get one bag with a 20kg limit so we are having to take the bare minimum

Hi, I'm getting married on 15 May 2009 at Dreams - well for the min anyway!! lol

I don't know - I don't know if its a translation blip or what. She sent me a sheet with the upgrades on (robbing bandits!) and it says 1 -2 hours so that to me is more than the bloody ceremony. I've emailed the photographer hopefully he'll get back to me and when he does I'll email her back and point out it says 1 -2 hours not 20 mins!! and ask her to take it off. Just spoke to FI and he's all for swapping to the RIU where all the legal fees are in plus massive extras and its still less than the Dreams package. Its also the fact of having to pay 50% upfront FI is in the army and anything could happen and I'd lose all that cash. Also how am I supposed to send a cheque in $ lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by SIMBASIM I just checked my contract and there is no mention about "ceremony only" I am all ready PO'ed about the fact they are ADDING onto my package rather than just upgrading and allowing us to pay the difference. I am re-thinking booking everything for the wedding with the hotel, I am not going to allow myself to get screwed. So this is the response i've just got from Claudia : "Photographs. One of the reasons we picked this package was because it included photographs. Is this right that it will only cover the ceremony? yes the photos only coversd the ceremony, it is a small package .. If so we will need to reconsider the whole package as I really don't want 50 photographs of the ceremony that will only last a short time and will be all the same. This is a major issue for us. Everything else we are really flexible but the photographs we arent. please find the photo packages upgrades & prices..." So thats another thing they are trying to screw us for!! I daren't email back until I've calmed down because at the minute I'd tell her to shove the wedding right up her jacksey!! I'm furious and have no clue what to do because I don't have an extra $1000 to add to an already inflated price! any suggestions would be appreciated but i think my only option is to swap hotel and i'm gutted!

Quote: Originally Posted by Ana We're getting married at Dreams and the drinks and food are included. They are charging us a $28pp set up charge to put everything together plus allocate wait staff exclusively for our group. Out of all the AIs I researched Dreams were the only ones doing this. Most AIs charge you for both food + drinks separately if you want a private dinner. Lucky you! I'm at Dreams Cancun and its costing me a bomb, nothing is included most things are extra! lol maybe i picked the wrong Dreams lol

Hi I've booked the wedding direct and am waiting for prices from Thomas Cook and Carribean Warehouse - I know flights go from Glasgow because he told me they did. The prices should be out in a couple of weeks Hope that helps

I would seriously tell her to poke it - who they hell are they to get on your case about what you spend. They don't know your financial circumstances and if the bride is the type of person that wants back what she gives I wouldn't want her as a friend. Maybe speak to the bride's mother she seems nice and see what she says

Nah I don't think so MOH or not you discuss what you are going to buy she certainly doesn't spend your money for you! tell her to bog off

That is way too high what you doing paying for her bloody wedding!! err no i'd say nope no way i can do that sorry!

Quote: Originally Posted by Nrvsbride I am a personal injury lawyer a.k.a. an ambulance chaser. Snap lol only recently got wrong when I refused to do the actual ambulance chasing and changed the firm lol Now I wait for the ambulances to stop lol

Christ are you pyschic cause that was amazing lol

I've been wondering that too to be honest. Mine is slightly different tho as there are plenty I DON't want to go including FMIL pmsl so i've decided just to send the STD to the ones I actually want to come rather than others I don't want cause knowing my lucky they'll book first !! lol

How lucky are u lol now that is what i call friends lol