Hartyt509

Quote: Originally Posted by Sloan That's why were staying in JA for 2 weeks. I want to be able to spend time with my new husband without having fmil knocking down our door wondering if we want to go for coffee or breakfast. That is EXACTLY what will happen with us lol or she'll arrange trips. FI tried to say to her to just come for one week but she wouldn't have it lol In the end we got the TA to book her on a different flight, from a different airport, on a different day lol she'll leave a day after us but he's been warned i'm NOT spending more than the wedding with her lol I've already had a chat with my m8s and our plan is in force so we should be ok, most people are reasonable when they aren't the parents lol

So say no and stand your ground. It's no body's busines but your own and you are the one that has to sleep at night chick. Everyone here gives really good advice but its their own personal feelings they aren't saying this is what you should do. No matter what you decide they will all back you on here because you are big enough to make your own decisions. You should NOT feel mad, upset, annoyed or pissed off on your wedding for one bitter and twisted woman and I agree she married your dad not you so if you don't want to invite her dont

I couldn't do it lol Everytime I have my legs waxed it lasts a week!!! and they always skin my bikini line lol Oh how I wish I could find a good one lol

I had this issue 2 to be honest. FI wanted his family and friends and I didn't lol We hardly see each other as it is so i didn't want to have to "share" this time with everyone. In the end we made a pact that we would spend some days just the 2 of us together with no-one else and politely tell everyone that we were also on honeymoon. Then most people dropped out so we went back to the time together but i've already said i'm spending time with my friends who are coming on their own and he can spend time with FMIL as I don't want to lol It can be worked out but you need to get a plan together and stick to it.

I think its up to you what you want to do. If I had my way FMIL's new hubby wouldn't be at my wedding because I can't stand him but there again I don't like her either lol It is your decision and whatever you decide you have to live with it. If it's going to make you miserable then don't invite her YOU have to be happy with what you are doing. It's not as if you aren't inviting her period its just to the church wedding which is a small part of the whole day. Upshot do what you and your FI want and deal with any fall out, but don't do something just to make someone else happy at your and FI's expense

Quote: Originally Posted by LC_Rachel haha- do you really want to know? I totally thought that at the end of season 4 too. Don't read past here if you didn't really want to know: No, he doesn't die. Of course I wanted to know lmao I'm such a pain i read stuff on the abc website cause i can't wait until it hits the UK lol Thank fook for that cause i think i'd have to stop watching lol

Quote: Originally Posted by carly OMG, I just cracked up at "let's call her bitch face"! Hahhahaaha, I had to tell my co-worker. So funny. That's one of the nicer things I call her lol she's the type you just wouldn't get sick of punching lol

One of my friends when I asked her to the wedding said "oh I'll bring (lets call her bitch face!) lol I said no you won't she said "no i mean this bitch face" I said yep I know who you mean and no I can't stand her and want to punch her face in every time i see her so she is NOT invited lol she got the message and funny enough they don't even speak anymore unless they have to lol I have no problem with people accompaying people on the actual holiday, thats entirely up to them, however the wedding is a different story. I'm paying per person so they can bloody well live with it and if they don't like it don't come. I had this convo with a male friend of mine who wanted to bring a random g/f who he fights with constantly!! I said no way lol He's not coming and you know what i'm not bothered less agro. Just be straight with her and say yes to the holiday no to the wedding

I get it 2 for some strange reason. I can only wear gold and as I don't wear yellow gold the white gold wears off after a while. I tend to take them out clean them and leave them for a couple of days give the ears a breather and that works. My worse is my belly ring god that gets infected at the drop of a hat. I burst it again yesterday which freaks everyone out but sometimes it has to be done lol My advice taken them out for a day or so, let it settle down and try again

Same thing has just happened to me. my wedding guests have dropped from 27 to 8!!! Two had already booked, her hubby was going to give me away, but apparently he'd rather go to a shit drink hole with his mates than mexico so she's coming on her own. Guess I'm walking myself lol

Tell her to go shove her head up her ass!!! Cheek if she wants him there so much she should bloody pay for him. I hate that people always presume and they shouldn't it does my nut in!! lol BTW sorry bad day and no sugar for a week lmao

Yep all of FI's family except the FMIL and new hubby! I couldn't swing that one lol They are bloody horrific, will get smashed and make arses of themselves. I'd only end up punching them and that would turn horrible lol My dad isn't going, mostly because he lives in Bali, but also because I don't want him anywhere near FMIL as he'll get her told straight lmao It's one of the reasons I didn't get married in Bali lol Dad is fine about it his words "not arsed you'll always be mine anyway" lmao too true dad lmao

I have a recurring one but its that I'm strangling FMIL lol and being dragged to the altar and made to do it lmao

I know people who have done it and it worked out great for them but they ended up marrying other people lol I'm not doing it I've already said to FI this is me, we've lived together long enough lol I'm not going to change so if thats a prob the door is just behind you lmao He's the same we both know its going to be difficult, nothing worth it isn't but I'm a firm believer in if its meant to be it will be.

Quote: Originally Posted by BachataBride On another note...OMG Kathy. I thought that was a pic of 2 towels & I was thinking why does she have a pic of 2 towels!!! HAHAHAHA How cute!! I did 2 lol and only looked again when I saw your post lmao If they aren't bothered do it early on a morning, you never know they might be glad of the distraction. I sure as hell would be lol I mean how pissed off can you get about your niece's 1st birthday you'd have to be pretty shallow to be naffed off by it lol

Its not bauer its just keifer sutherland in general lol I had the hots for him in lost boys!! yum lmao i've got all the seasons on dvd but i'm only up to season 3 lol it takes me ages to get into them and then when i do i can't turn it off lol

Ok UK just finished season 4 and as I love greys so much i read the updates on the abc website lol At the end of season 4 if gave some teasers for 5 please tell me derek isn't going to bloody die after all the crap!

Does it have to be a suit? How about some light trousers, say linen? then a flowery top that has got to be easier to find

Quote: Originally Posted by SIMBASIM They will provide witnesses. Not sure of cost though If I were to guess I would say yes because they charge you extra for everything...right Hartyt509!!!! LOL!!!! Yep they do lol I'm trying to work out whats cheaper still paying for the package or the individual stuff lol I reckon I'm now going to have about 5 guests lmao I've even had one of my really good mates who booked up 2 days after me put a spanner in the works lol Her hubby has now decided that he doesn't want to go he'd rather go to teneriffe with the lads so my mate is coming on her own but its costs her another 1k!! Lets see if she sticks to that I doubt it lol I think it might still be cheaper to pay for the package for 20 which is stupid and trying to talk to FI about it I may as well not bother my arse - i'm still waiting for him to send out the invitations i've had since october!!

Quote: Originally Posted by Kat81 I am sure you can.. they will just put the deposit toward whatever you end up getting. I changed almost everything once I got there. All the money I paid just went toward the final bill. Hang in there! And don't forget to look for me in my pink dress BAHAHAHAHAHAHA Up yours worky ticket lmao

This might be a daft question but ... lol As 90% of my guests are dropping out anyone know if I can change my whole package even if i've paid 50% deposit and not lose it.

Yeah I do reiki it's amazing. For her to be that good she must be a master lol lucky you that she was there.

LMAO she is off her rocker lol but NO-ONE is too close to uninvite lol I agree that you shouldn't stoop to her level but I would lmao I'd make sure that dress was totally trashed lmao get her drunk out of her room and a nice scissor job lmao But she won't steal your thunder she'll just make herself look like a twat lmao even if it hurts like hell make sure you laugh in her face, that will totally screw with her head lol

Yeah I've had it lol I got "well I won't be going" and then a snort off a cousin lol my response was " you weren't invited I was just telling you what i'm doing" lmao they all went v quiet and FI said he wanted to strangle me lol I learnt a long time ago the only person you can rely on is yourself and people are always opinionated and think they can "make you see sense" lol I keep saying look shut it i'm 36 not 6 you've not had a say in my life so far so now back right off lmao I'm lucky dad said do what you want to do screw everyone else so I am lol only bummer is I had to invite FMIL!! lol

It'll die on its arse lol its illegal to sell or buy organs and if she paid him in effect that's what she did. No court will give him it, well they couldn't in the UK anyway lol He's better off screwing her arse to the wall in family court lol made me laugh tho lol Which is weird as my mum had a kidney transplant and trust me the procedure and aftermath is no picnic lol Wonder if the physical therapist was nice looking lmao