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She's had her wedding and I bet she didn't let anyone interfere with that - stick to your guns and tell her to poke off you're going to mexico lol

I don't agree that you have to forgive no matter what - i'm sorry I don't mean to offend but that has bugger all to do with religion in my own opinion. You need to support FI and just be there for him thats the end of it really. The girls are right people handle things in different ways. He maybe doesn't want to get back in with his family because they will bully him into seeing his mother and he's probably right. Look what a meeting has done to him. I wish my DH would just cut off his lot because of the same reasons, I used to like MIL until I've heard some of the things she allowed to happen to her kids and now I despise her but for some reason he still loves her, although he has cut the strings a lot more. If there is no room for his family then that's it just leave it alone chick and let him deal with it his way

Ok, now this may sound harsh lol its NOT their wedding! I'm sure my cow of a FMIL wanted a AHR 2 she got told to shove it I wasn't paying for a bunch of people I don't know or don't give a shit about so that she can act the "queen" lol In the end hardly anyone came to our wedding as it got moved v last minute (like 5 days!) but you know what i'm still not having one. If you don't want one say NO you aren't having one - end of conversation its sod all to do with them even if they are going to pay for it.

I don't live in london but I can give you some info. Camden is very arty i love it but not sure i'd want to live there lol We have orange, 3, O2 vodaphone and T mobile. I use 02 as its cheaper for me but it depends what you want - have a look at the carphone warehouse website it'll give you some ideas No idea about communiting but a weekend is always bloody expensive and yes oyster card all the way

I don't live in london but I can give you some info. Camden is very arty i love it but not sure i'd want to live there lol We have orange, 3, O2 vodaphone and T mobile. I use 02 as its cheaper for me but it depends what you want - have a look at the carphone warehouse website it'll give you some ideas No idea about communiting but a weekend is always bloody expensive and yes oyster card all the way

Not having been to the states I would think everything you can get there you could get here lol Peanut butter is in the supermarkets and now and loads of stuff is selling for £1 up here, not sure about london tho. Clothes probably are more expensive but when I went to Canada by the time you add the tax on it was about the same. If you really need anything special you can get it on the net and delivered. There are so many versions of milk these days you are bound to find one she'll drink. If you need anything pm me as I don't get on much these days.

I've put some on the shoutbox thread

If the groom had dared ask me to clean up after all the crap i'd just put up with I'd have punched him in the mouth and told him to fuck right off lol I hope you give her total frigging hell with your wedding lol My MOH turned up, got herself ready, did her make up and I had to wait for her! lol She was supposed to do my make up but I gave up on that when she was still pissing about an hour later so got myself sorted lol The co-ordinator came to get me and she is outside on the balcony having a tab! I swear i nearly choked her lol so I think you were an angel lol

Quote: Originally Posted by AnnR Oh I know there are bad places everywhere, but since I get to pick where we live - I'd love to pick one that wasn't bad! lol Per Google Maps (Street View) it looks pretty industrial right around the apt. building, but if you go a few blocks in either direction, it gets better. We may send our co-worker over there to check it out in person. I'll feel better if someoen I trust gives it the thumbs up first! Good idea lol Always best to get someone to go and take pics for you - don't rely on google isn't not always right lol If i look at google earth at my house my old car is on the drive - i've had this one nearly 3 years lol

Yeah mine does it too when he's home or he puts on star trek or some other sci fi crap and thinks because i'm not physically looking at the screen i won't mind lol i can still hear the frigging thing!! But sorry girls I have the best one of all - FI goes to Afghanistan tomorrow and says oh well we've got life cover haven't we! I said errr noooo it won't apply if you haven't told them beforehand! So i've spent 3 hours searching the net and being told sorry we won't cover! I mean ffs !! how frigging stupid is the arse that I married - NO INSURANCE!!

I hear wimbledon is ok - there are good and bad places where ever you live in the world. You will like it tho - I like London but its a lot busier than where i am and if you ever get that cheesed off contact me and i'll try and get down there lol If you get time off tho try and explore especially scotland its amazing.

Quote: Originally Posted by AnnR I was hoping you'd see this! Do you know the Battersea area, or the area where our apt. is at all? I'm afraid it looks so industrial and not very "neighborhoody" ... per Google maps, that is. I don't really know london very well but I think battersea is ok but i think london is industrial and it isn't "neighborhoody" what I know of anyway. There will be some places like that tho. London is great saying that its a total mix of cultures and you will like it and its certainly a lot warmer than where i am lol If you are going to work in Manchester that is much more friendly but colder lol

Yeah it's been and gone lol here's the review http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t43258 Let's just say i can't seem to quite get over it which isn't me lol

You'll love it honestly lol we talk funny but once you get over that you'll be fine lol London is a real mix of cultures and a lot of americans there. If you get a chance head north it gets better and better lol I am biased tho :-)

No you aren't being selfish and he needs to cut the apron strings with his bloody mother! She won't frigging melt or turn to stone if she travels on her own lol I've just had 2 and a bit weeks with my aunt and I want to rip her frigging head off because we didn't have ONE day by ourselves! Therefore no you aren't selfish you just want some time together