I finally decided to just keep my choices limited to some of the most popular resorts on this forum ... I figured it must be wonderful if so many brides have chosen it. Plus you know you will have lots of information on here about that resort once you pick it
I am waiting till after we do a site visit to choose but I've narrowed my list down to:
(oh and I also don't want to get married on the sand so that really limits our choices)
El Dorado Royale (adults only - so that won't help you)
Barcelo Maya Palace (kids are allowed, pretty gazebo but I heard its not very private)
Moon Palace (kids allowed, lots of gazebos, I think its the priciest on my list)
Gran Bahia Principe Tulum (kids allowed, cheaper than the others, and very nice gazebo)
Dreams Tulum (kids allowed, Dreams has good wedding packages, but no gazebos off the sand .. I just liked the spanish chapel, but all my guests probably won't fit so this is last on my list)
Dreams Cancun has an awesome gazebo I'm just really concerned about how windy it will be (I hate the wind, I get so annoyed with it and I want to keep my long hair down) ... I also didn't want to be in the strip of Cancun. I like the idea of a more isolated area
Good luck!