Quote: Originally Posted by Yari I am going to be blunt here...get rid of her now! You don't need extra baggage weighing you down. If she is not honored to be in your wedding then she doesn't deserve to be in it period. I have to agree!
Quote: Originally Posted by Maura trust me when i say let her go. you can still be friends, but give her the option to bow out gracefully -- tell her you understand she's busy, and you dont have time to screw around tracking stuff down. if she cant fulfill her BM duties, tell her you still love her, and are sorry she cant manage her schedule to help out with her end of the planning (which is really to just get a fricking dress that fits, come on how hard is that?). maybe she is acting this way because she doesn't want the responsibility anymore. i agree with maura, give her the option.
sorry she is stressing you out!