Hi Manney,
I didn't do a private reception, I had the same concerns that you did but once I talked to Erika everything was clear. They put us at the Torote restaurant, which I liked because of the views and the open terrace. It's the only restaurant facing the pool and ocean the one of the best menus besides the Italian. But the Italian is in the main square and away from the water. Anyway, they put us in the private terrace and we never felt we were sharing the space with anyone else. It was perfect! I recommended.