cleopatra92515

I'm undecided. Our names hyphenated sounds weird, but I'm not sure if I want to give up mine totally. It makes me feel nonexistent somehow. Besides all my professional documents are in my name.

Welcome: I'm new to this forum business too. But you will love it once you get the hang of it. BTW, Montego Bay is lovely. I'm from Jamaica and I have to say if I hadn't opened my big mouth and told my fiance's family I'd be happy to get married in Guyana where they live, I would have done it in my own sweet Jamaica. But what can I say. I love the man and will do just about anything for him. Welcome and have fun.

Welcome! I just joined a few days ago. This forum has tons of information. It has saved me from going to many different places looking for the same thing over and over. I wish you the best.

I went to the ob-gyn to make sure all is well for my wedding day. As usual, for me to have anyone poking around in my privates is totally humiliating. I always feel so dirty afterwards. As I walked out I saw myself in the mirror and I thought I looked a hot mess. As I walked down the stairs, I saw this gorgeous young woman coming upstairs and I thought, "Now why can't I look like that?" "Fat" has never been a word I've used to describe myself, but in that moment I used that and much more. I know now it was just a result of my ob-gyn visit and other added feelings. Don't beat yourself up. You are human. Don't try to tackle everything at once. Start small. Cant exercise for 30 minutes. Try 8 minutes. Craving chocolate? Have a little bit and move on. But keep positive and say positive things to yourself. Know you are beautiful.

Hi: I am 3 months away from my May 25th wedding in Georgetown, Guyana. This forum will be useful. I've never met my in-laws and I've never been to Guyana where my fiance is from. So here goes to the biggest decision I've ever made......