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Those of you who have had a baby before marriage will really understand this....
3 months before my college graduation I found out I was pregnant.....UNEXPEXTED...and I was scared shitless! I was broke waiting on a loan and missed one week of my BC! But guess what the last thing I thought of was oh crap Im not married! Times have changed, now it really doesnt matter if your married first... All that matters is that baby is well taken care of and happy. It really doesnt matter how you do it. Baby just wants to know its loved! I think that most peoples ideal is marriage then kids. Having my baby is the best thing I have done up until this point in my life! She brings joys that you could not even imagine until you have one! I dont believe in JUMP THE GUN WEDDINGS BECAUSE OF PREGNANCY....most of the time it doesnt work!
Anyway, it doesnt matter how happy you and your sig other are....having a baby is a real toll on any relationship (not in a bad way). You see how your sig other handles things. You agree on how baby should be raised sometimes you wont always agree. Sleepless nights, will you help each other out? Whos gonna feed baby this time? Daycare? Nursing? If a parent stays home to care for baby will other respect them because they are not earning a living. For some people these simple things could cause fights and make you wonder if you really want to be with the person. I belive that a child makes everything stronger! At the end of the day you sit with your family and realize how happy and lucky you are!
CONGRATS MARTHA.....PREGNANCY IS AMAZING and I BET THAT YOU WILL LOOK ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL IN YOUR PREGNANT WEDDING DRESS! I CANT WAIT TO SEE PICTURES....WHAT A FUN SET OF PICS THOSE WILL BE
Also, now that I have a baby and I know how easily I can get pregnant and knowing that my wedding is 2 1/2 months away I have been staying extra protective with bc!!!!!!! Just so that I do not have worry about re -ordering dress, clothes, etc! Also I would like to start my career that I went to college for lol!
Babys are so fun!