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HOLY COW! That would be SO crazy if Molly is pregnant! I would feel SO bad for Melissa. Or what if Jillian is pregnant?? Maybe from the overnight date. Because the after the final rose is so far after either of them could be! OMG What a scandal that would be now I am super interested in the next two weeks.

Jillian did seem like she was saying what she thought she should say instead of what she was feeling BUT I really DON'T like Molly. I hate the women tell all what a waste of a Monday night lol

What was up with the after the final rose being such a big deal

OMG WTF?! I think Deonna just is giving him some hints on how to pick someone. I don't think she is trying to get him back. That outfit looks like CRAP on her! What was she thinking, and why would he pick Molly of Jill?! BLAH!

Quote: Originally Posted by drtracy Okay, now that V-day is over. (I'm usually ambivalent about it but FI does such a great job with "homemade" special-ness that it's hard not to like it.) I have to get some confessions out: #1 - I hate my sister. The only time she wasn't making my life miserable was when she moved to Texas for a few years. I grew up with her calling me fat (I wasn't) trying to steal my boyfriends, making fun of me in front of everyone for now reason, trying to fight me when I grew taller than her (serious fist fights), she once lied about something so serious that she got us both removed from our parents home and we had to live with my grandparents for several weeks. She works about 1 day every 3 month and lies about it so my parents won't kick her out of the house that they are paying for (if it wasn't for my nephew she would be on the street). And now, she's mad that I won't pay for her to go to Cancun, DUH I don't want her there. But, I feel horribly guilty about it (and about hating her, I mean, she's my sister). #2 - I like most of my FIs friends but I dislike most of their wives. They are so traditional and 1950s wives with jobs that it annoys me. An example, we were discussing the fact that I'm not legally changing my last name. For work it's staying the same an in our personal lives I don't care either way so it's easier just to keep it all the same. To my face one of the wives said, "If I was a guy I wouldn't marry someone that wouldn't take my name." WTF - really, THAT'S a deal breaker for you? And why would you tell me that? #3 - I'm really sad that neither my FI nor myself can remember how we met. We've known each other since high school and we know that we met through his cousins and parties and such but we don't have a great story about the first time we saw each other or anything like that. Grant it, we didn't start dating until 14 years after high school, but still makes me a little sad to only have the, "How we reconnected story." Sorry this is so long, just wanted to get a few things off my chest today. You can pick your friends but you can't pick your family. It is not your responsibility to pay for your sister to go to Cancun. I wouldn't feel bad at all. Some people are ignorant. They never think outside the box. I have the same problem with some girls. They just think there is one way to do something. I think that is a cool story on how you met. Most people don't know eachother that long before they finally "get together" I think it is cute you have known each other forever!

Guys are totally ignorant when it comes to style and dresses. He was in the wrong for saying that because obviously it sounded mean. Sorry you had a crappy V day.

My fingers are crossed too! We bought our house April 24th! Although we won't qualify for the full amount we should still get around 3750. That will be really nice if we don't have to repay it. We could really use the extra money

Here is the info on the new credit in the stimulus package. $8,000 First Home Buyer Tax Credit in 2009 Economic Stimulus Plan - Refundable or Not?

OMG I can't wait to see all the pictures! And I can't believe your day is almost here Jenny!!!

I hate Valentines Day too. I always have....

I think that is really odd about Jason and Melissa... Melissa sat at home and watched the Bachelor last season and fell in lust with Jason and Jason watched her show and fell in lust with her... hmmmmmm I see a hook up in the making.

YAY! Congrats! We need pictures!!

LMAO I just told my husband and he loved it!

Quote: Originally Posted by starchild Thank you, that is awesome! Sweet! I know someone with a gopher problem right now, I will pass this on. I wonder why human hair works? I have heard human hair works for deer that are eating your garden as well....

MMM well if you grow too much you can always ship it to Texas I am always so scared off from growing anything like that because I don't know anything about it.

She is beautiful! Congrats!

LMAO you go girl!

Quote: Originally Posted by Christine Philly bride, I have been thinking the whole time that's what Deanna is actually going to say and that him crying is when he actually has to choose not because of Deanna. I don't think him not meeting her parents is actually that big of a deal, its happened before on the bachelor and honestly my parents would find it weird that I was on a tv show trying to marry some guy who I barely knew and is dating other women. I actually feel bad for her it seems like her parents aren't very interested in her life, she mentioned they never came to her games when she was a cowboys cheerleader, that is sad not that they wouldn't meet the bachelor. I agree. I mean I understand them not understanding why she is doing it. But she is and they should support her. I feel bad for her. I do love her friends though, and sometimes you get to see people for who they really are in front of their friends. And Melissa was still same sweet Melissa. I think if it had been Molly in front of her friends he might have seen a different side to her.

Holy Cow Tammy! That is quite the garden!

I got to see the whole thing. I really really don't like Molly. She seems so fake and I really can't see her being good with kids. I love Melissa and Jillian. They are very good souls. I don't think he could go wrong with either of them.

Quote: Originally Posted by JoannaR Has anyone else been getting the OH MEXICO IS SO DANGEROUS comment.. It has me SICK!! I keep hearing it from random people and im like okay then STAY HOME.. grrrrrr Sorry had to vent..lol Yeah, I got that all the time. Random old people always said that to me. Dreams is really safe though. I never felt scared at all.

I saw a preview for it last night! It better be on lol

You know I do.

When does he get back?

Quote: Originally Posted by blkladylaw We just started trying in January. Jan was a no go but Feb I am waiting to find out. I'm 37 and all my friends my age or older can't anymore or have had issues so I have been nervous. We did it on a highest peak day with the lil egg symbol using the Clearblue easy monitor and I have been testing like crazy with anxiety. Well yesterday I took a Clearblue test that is supposed to make a + symbol for a yes and I though I saw a faint vertical line but not quite. Well I looked at it again this morning when I got up before throwing it away and the line looked a lil darker. I showed hubby and he said yeh it does kind of look like a line there. So I started drinking water like crazy to create more urine lol and took a digital First Response test just now and it says Yes +!!! I am still not sure yet though. Yesterday at work I thought I was starting my period because I saw a lil brownness but then woke up this morning and there is nothing going on down there. I can't wait til I know for certain...the waiting is driving me nuts! A digital test isn't as sensitive as the others so if it says yes then you are pregnant!!! CONGRATS!