Kristy!

I haven't been in your exact situation, but I have been cheated on by a long-term boyfriend. We had been dating for over five years when I found out he had been seeing another girl for the past seven months. When I confronted him, he went crazy and tried to OD. It was awful. I only cried once through the whole thing though...when I saw a counselor for one session. I was really surprised by this because I am definitely a crier. I did have the opportunity to really go off on him a couple months after the whole thing happened, which was the last time I saw him back in 2004. That probably helped. You boyfriend has missed his chance to do that (if he never did it), so I would recommend going to see a counselor. Solo sessions and then some with you would probably be the most effective. Please be assured that your boyfriend is not upset that his marriage ended, he's pissed that someone would blantantly hurt him like this. His ex-wife did something that she knew would break his heart and she did it anyway. I still hate my ex, but I'm very happy our relationship ended and I would never want him back in my life in any way. But the fact that someone out there cared for me so little that they would do something to really hurt me is very upsetting. I don't know if this all makes sense, but hopefully I can offer you a little comfort and advice. Hang in there!

Stupid rain! That sucks!

Sarah, I'm so sorry. That situation just sucks. Hang in there!

So I woke up this morning in a fit of rage. FI is causing a lot of little frustrations with wedding plans and condo searching and for some reason, everything just started to really annoy me this morning. I am fully aware that I am irrationally angry right now, but I don't care. I just want to yell at him. I NEVER get like this, so this is really strange. And no, PMS is not involved. Please tell me I'm being normal, that this just happens from time to time. Oh, and I haven't had any contact with FI yet today, so I haven't gone off on him. Lucky for him! Grrr...

I was a Falcon...Messiah College (which I'm sure no one has heard of) by Harrisburg, PA. Now for grad school I'm a Bearcat at CUNY Baruch in Manahattan. Alyssa, I believe NYU's mascot is the Violets. I don't know where they came up with that one.

Ha ha ha. I saw the title of your thread and I thought it was going to be about someone stealing spoilers off of cars or something. Oops!

I'm an '09er and on WW as well. I've been going about 2 months too. I'm down 10.8! Yay! I won't let myself even look at dresses until I'm down 25. Now that's an incentive! 17 pounds it great! Keep it up!

Great job on the 2 pounds lost! I dropped one pound this week so that put me over the 10 pound mark! Yay! The first mini goal has been completed! Next is my 10% goal (all you WW girls know what I'm talking about). Let's kick it into high gear for our final week! (Can you believe it?!)

I don't think any of us are looking for praise, but I think people are giving kudos because we're doing something against the norm that is hard to do. Trust me, I've wanted to pounce on FI MANY times in the last 3+ years, but my personal belief is that sex only belongs in a marriage, so I'm waiting. I don't think those who are sexually active are weak or look down on them in any way, we just believe different things. I guess what I'm trying to tackfully say is that even if you don't think praise is deserved, just let people give it if they want to. It's not hurting anyone, but questioning it may make people feel bad.

I can't believe your'e a basketball whore! j/k I'm trying to think of a good one too. I thought of this topic because a girl at lunch was talking about a strange date she had last night.

Maybe a cooler for their six packs?

So I'm bored and in need of a little entertainment. What's the strangest or worst date you've ever had? (These stories should make us feel really good about being off the single's market!)

I'm doing an excursion, not sure about OOT bags though. It seems like people drop a lot of money into those bags (those little items add up quickly!). We're chartering a catamarran for an afternoon. I think it's $600 for 50 people. They get you with the food and drinks though. Since we're staying at a villa that includes chef service, I'm going to have the chef make up some lunch and rum punch to take with us on the boat.

Thanks! Usually when people hear that they just rolls their eyes at me or look at me like I have three heads. Is it so hard to believe that there is at least one person in this world who believes in waiting until marriage? It's nice to hear someone actually encourage me.

You're probably going to think I'm nuts, but I've never been with anyone. I've always wanted to wait till my wedding night for my first time. So you're definitely not alone!

I like the blue one. I actually sent this link to my mom because I thought the dress would be perfect for her, so thank you!

Wow, those are very classy, sexy pics. They turned out great!

Never have I ever gone down on my man in public.

I have been thinking about booking a photographer named Ray (I can't think of his last name right now) for our wedding. I'm not sure if I'm doing TTD yet. The website is Karay Media Productions - Wedding Photography in St. Lucia I read some excellent things about him on Tripadvisor. Hope this helps at least a little.

Never have I ever broken a bone.

Ha ha! That's funny Karen! Mmm...sushi. Never have I ever fooled around with two different guys in one night.

Never have I ever eaten a blue M&M

I'm getting married in St Lucia, but then we're flying to the DR for our honeymoon. We'll be staying at Excellence as well.

Good job girls! Yay Erica! I love how #7 on the list Maura posted says junk food. How vague can that be?!

I think we're going to need pictures of pets on vacation! It's a close battle between the two.