I have lost weight for every wedding I've been in...except mine. For some reason, I just cannot focus on it and it's so frustrating. I finally said this is stupid. I'm so worried about it that I'm not enjoying things like dress shopping. So I finally went shopping, found my dress, and I feel absolutely beautiful in it. If you found a dress that does that for you, buy it. Don't put all of that extra pressure on yourself, it's just not worth it.