I have been back and forth about have a "party" or something really informal, but I think I will ultimately decide against it. When we first decided on a DW we said that we might have a party when we get back and some people's response was... "well, we will just attend the reception and not go to the wedding", which really wasn't the whole idea. We had a friend offer to have a party/celebration at her house... which was extremely kind... so I guess we will see. I still have a while to think about it!