Quote: Originally Posted by Pisces I understand what he's feeling. I was not personally aware of this tradition, so if it were the other way around I would be very upset. I would see if there's any way you can get return address labels made with both of your names. It seems like having just one name makes it seem like "your" wedding, and not the two of you. Sorry, just trying to be honest. This is how dean feels - that all of a sudden this is my wedding and he has no say. I think he's just flexing his male muscle. I think he would understand that it is a tradition. Tell him you were trying to save him the grief of organizing a seating chart based on the responses