I agree... times are definitely hard for everyone. While you want to be inclusive you have to do what makes sense for you and your FH. A destination wedding is important to you and all you really need are the two of you. if an AHR is more feasible for your guests, then that may be something to consider...you can still have your detsination ceremony that will always be special to the two of you and celebrate with family and loved ones closer to home...