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So I'm working with a local designer who is putting our invitations together. She wants to me to start putting together all the information I'm going to want to include along with my invitation. I know for sure we will be sending RSVP return cards but what else should I include with invitation and what should I title the other tabs? I do want to take this opportunity to give my guests all of the important information they are going to need for trip so I don't want to forget anything. I am giving my guests OOT bags with a welcome letter and a schedule of activities we will be doing all weekend so the activities will be included there. Should I include local weather and wedding transportation, as well? What else am I missing

That looks really good!!!! Now I want one too... I looked up the gocco and they don't have a dealer in Houston

Your cousin is crazy. I know in the very old ages and mainly for very formal events it was custom to pay for your guest's travel but definetly not if it's a destination wedding. That would be absolutely outrageous. Show her the following page from the knot.com where it says you are not obligated. By the way this article talks about weddings in general so I would assume that it applies even more to a DW: The Knot - Q&A: Wedding Guests: Should You Pay their Expenses? "You're not obligated to pay your wedding guests' travel or hotel expenses. It is nice, however, to make it easier on guests by letting them know when your wedding will be as early as possible so they can start calling around for good airfares. You should also research hotels to see where you can get a good group rate; often, when a wedding party brings in a lot of guests, the hotel will give a discount to the group. You shouldn’t actually make the reservations, rather reserve a block of rooms, and then send your guests the hotel information they'll need along with the invitations. They should be given a reservation number, the nightly rate, as well as what to say when they call"

Quote: Originally Posted by Christine (and you'll be all tan for your new DMV picture) Good point! I am going to wait to change name. I didn't realize process was such a pain. Thanks!

Thanks ladies for the very useful advice. I guess I'm too excited about becoming my hubby's Mrs. that I wanted to jump right on it. I will listen to you and wait until I get back. I do want to avoid any problems.

Ladies, For those of you that got legally married prior to your DW did you change your name before or after the DW? We are doing the legal thing 3 days before we leave for DW and I was thinking of processing the paperwork to change my name as well, but my FI mentioned that I may have problems traveling if my married name is different than the name on my passport. I won't have enough time to get a new passport with my new name in 3 days. Did anyone have this problem? I tried to find a thread on this topic but couldn't so if there is one already could you please direct me to it? Thanks!!

Wow! the dress looks amazing. You definetly made the right choice with the changes. The lace up back is super sexy and the sweetheart neckline looks so good on you. You look gorgeous!

I'm glad you are feeling better. You should seriously not stress too much about it. Like some girls pointed out they will at least be there for the main event. Keep your head up.

OMG! Your pictures are gorgeous!!!! I absolutelty loooove the sunset picture of you guys.....very pretty!!!

aaaaw! my little yorkie barks back at the thunder....it's really funny to watch. First you hear loud thunder and then you see him looking up at the ceiling and barking.

Jessica, WOW! All your things look amazing!!!! It is always so nice to see all the small projects come together. I am certain your wedding will turn out just perfect.

Quote: Originally Posted by rn81 Hey gals, Just wanted to say that I went to get the bags too! They are such a steal! I just couldn't refuse that sale! Now I will just have to figure out how to take them (40) down to mexico... hmm... hey any ideas on what you will fill them with? I fear the bags might be too big for all the little things I want to put in them... Do you guys think it will matter if the bag looks only 1/3 or 1/2 full... I know... silly question... but i had to ask... Although I have not bought my items yet I do intend on putting a beach towel in there so that will take some space. I will put some of the small items like sunblock, aloe vera, lock, games, postcard. Also, when I get to Mexico I want to run the local Wal Mart and buy bottles of water and mexican snacks to put in my bags so that should take some room too. If by any chance I feel like my bags are still too empty I will bring some tissue paper and decorate the bags like gift bags.

Congratulations on picking a location. It must be a relief to have place picked out!

They are a really good idea for a really good price. I really like the vivid colors. I can see though how this project may get a little messy. When using that kind of paint it gets really hard to not make it look smudged. Have you thought about using stencils for a cleaner look? How about markers?

Quote: Originally Posted by claudiabenitez Well I need another miracle tip for my tablecloth, maybe one of you girls knows how to fix it. My fiancee surprised me with a romantic dinner after work, but one of the candles (orange, by the way) he used spilled on the tablecloth (WHITE!!!) and now I can't take the stain out! Someone knows how to? Thanks in advance! oooh that sucks! my best guess would be to try oxy cleaner since it takes away tons of stains. also goo gone is really good with things like crayons and lipstick so it might work too.

HAHA.... I thought I was the only silly person to use permanent marker on my clothes. I once had a sweater where only the seams had discolored after a few washes so I was in my office coloring the seam of my sweater. My coworker caught me and thought I was so crazy. Hee Hee. It works! But make sure it's dry before you wear it.....I had to be careful not to hug anyone for about 10 min

AAAAW! that was very nice of you!

I really like them esp. the beachy charms!

Your pictures are gorgeous!!! I couldn't stop viewing the slideshow. I love all your flowers....did your WC help you with the bouquetes on table? Very pretty!

They look amazing. I do remember your last ones and although they were very nice I agree how these look much better. Good job!

What a great idea! The picture is gorgeous too!

I haven't done it yet but I was thinking of making my FI a scrapbook of our dating years. I was going to make in chronological order and I wanted it to paint a picutre of our relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend. The last page was going to have wedding stickers. I figured in a few years I could make him another scrapbook and start it with our wedding photos. I have never done a scrapbook in my life before so it's going to be challenging but I think it will be a worth it project.

Looks really good. I really love the different colors!!!! How many bridesmaids are you having?

Thank you so much for sharing! I really like the project and will probably do it myself. What discount did you get from Hobby Lobby? Was it a coupon or a weekly promotion? Thanks!