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monicaswave

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  1. Quote: Originally Posted by Morgan Would you consider making it legal before you get there? I am so excited we are doing it this way. Mike gets to plan "marriage day" because I'm planning the wedding day. Good point!
  2. Thank you for reminding all of us to be polite. I know at times people get carried again when saying their opinion but it is nice to remind everyone to be considerate. I have never been offended by anyone in this forum and I would hate to hurt someone's feelings.
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    Hello Emily...you will love it here!
  4. Wow! That is great news!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
  5. Sounds very normal to me. I am not there yet but I'm sure I'll feel that way. I guess one good thing is that we are doing the legal stuff at home just the two of us so it can help me relax the day of the actual ceremony by thinking "what the heck we are already married"
  6. Welcome!!! Wow your wedding is next month already!
  7. Welcome!!!! So did you get engaged in Cuba because you were on vacation there or are you from there?
  8. Quote: Originally Posted by froggie1013 monicaswave you have described our relatinoship to a T. The only difference is that I sometimes get turned down! He likes it better when he initiates it. The only way I can get things going but trick him into thinking he actually starts it is by wearing lingerie. He's always been like this, so I doubt it's going to change. Grrrr... The lingerie thing is a good idea. I may try that soon. Thanks! Jean-Marcus....you are waaay funny. I always crack up at your responses
  9. Quote: Originally Posted by froggie1013 I actually have the opposite problem. I want it all the time and FI is fine with once every week or two. It's drives me crazy! Wow I just saw your response....you are in the same boat as me. Good...I thought I was alone.
  10. Ok I've been on both ends of the spectrum so I can really relate. In my previous relationship my sex drive became really really low after a year or so and I consulted my Dr. She basically told me one of the same things I heard on this thread about it all being pshycological and blah blah. I was certain it wasn't in my head and begged her for some female viagra or something of that sort. She explained that at that time there wasn't anything like that available in the market. I had a feeling my BC was causing the low sex drive so I got off it and waaa laaaah.....my sex drive came back!!!! Since then I swore to never use BC again....at least the pills. I hate how it makes me feel and I love to have my sex drive back. So now I'm in a this wonderful relationship with the man I plan to spend the rest of my life with and I have the opposite problem. I feel like I want it all the time and it drives me insane that he doesn't. I try to be really understanding since I know what it's like to have a low sex drive but he is a guy and I thought guys don't have this problem so it drives me nuts. I seriously don't know what the problem is. I feel like if it wasn't because I always start and initiate things we would never ever have sex and he wouldn't care. Most of the time I do start things he does follow but I would really really really want him to initiate things at times. The few times he does initiate things is in the middle of the night after we go out and I'm sound asleep. Don't get me wrong I would love to wake up and get it on but most of the time I am so deep into my sleep I blow him off without even realizing it. I'm a very deep sleeper so I suggested he try in the morning or when I'm awake and no change. I constantly feel really insecure and wonder if he continues to find me attractive. I haven't gained any weight since we started dating and I am constantly working out and taking care of myself. I have even nicely talked to him and told him my concerns. He keeps reassuring me it's not me but then he doesn't make an effort . Oh and the text message thing....I actually do that all the time and I rarely get a response!!!! I don't blame him about it much since I know he is usually super busy at work and doesn't have time to respond so I just blow it off but now I'm wondering if I should be concerned. Am I crazy
  11. You are right....those invitations are so awesome. I love love love the bamboo stick that closes the invitation. I wonder if instead of a leaf they could close the invitation with a palm leaf? I will keep this web site in mind when I get ready to order mine.
  12. Welcome! You will find tons of good info here.
  13. Very very pretty. You look happy in it and that's what counts.
  14. Quote: Originally Posted by becks I'm trying to come up with ideas for our hats (tshirts are just too hard with the sizing - someone's going to be offended!) So far all I have is "I don't need no stinking sunscreen!" um... no. What about... You may now kiss the bartender Speak now or... just have another beer I now pronounce you totally intoxicated I now pronounce you... actually, I can't pronounce anything 'Til death do you party (perhaps too morbid) OMG! those are hilarious....I love the one "I know pronounce you totally intoxicated" LOL!!!!!
  15. Girl! I seriously love them! I can see how the letters spread out may look different but I actually think it makes it look really modern. I've seen that style of expanded letters on really modern invitations. I really really like them.
  16. WELCOME! Sorry don't know much about that area but I'm sure some of the brides here will be able to help you.
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