Hi Rita! Welcome! My fiance and I are looking to book a wedding in the Mayan Riviera in January of 2009 as well. We're using a travel agent to give us the information on group rates and resorts, and then doing the actual research on the "wedding packages etc..." ourselves with the resorts themselves. We haven't quite picked a place yet either, and I'm finding it really difficult to find something that's perfect for all that we want. Let me know what you're thinking, we've done about 3 months worth of research, and have been close to booking 2 different resorts (until something arose that didn't quite match our plans)
Cheers,
Ana