Quote: Originally Posted by Jenn That's a tough one... I understand your thinking she shouldn't invite herself, but she's his mom. My mother has an open invitation in my house, same with my DH's family. It is the same with my FI and I. We both think family is super important and both our sets of parents are welcome whenever they choose. But I think that there is probably a reason why you feel the way that you do in this case, otherwise you probably wouldn't mind so much. Sometimes when we let things build up and build up they come out in the end, usually with more intensity than if they'd been addressed at the time. About a year ago I had a similar issue with my FI's mom, only she was being cold and evil to him. I just confronted her one on one, without my FI's involvement. I told her how she made us feel, and what I thought of her. It really helped. She's been a much better mother to him, and a great friend to me ever since. that's just my 2-cents :S sorry for rambling lol