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awesome job Erika! It looks so great! How is the paper quality? is it kind of thick or is it thin? I am thinking to get a few of those books made for our parents too

woo I can't wait to see who wins

I voted! good luck girls!

You do realize though that one day your husband will be older, have wrinkles, loose skin, maybe experience some hair loss. Will that also affect your attraction to him. Sorry I guess I really honestly do not understand this. I do not understand how it is possible to feel less attracted to your partner if they gain a little bit of weight. My attraction to my husband is not predicated on his physical appearance by any means. My attraction stems from my affection for him, and I think that perhaps your choice of words were a bit offensive to some spouses on this forum, I know they were for me.

Do you think its possible that the issues are really ones that you have with yourself, and maybe you're diverting the responsibility onto him? Maybe you feel insecure. That could also make you less attracted to another person, experience loss of sex drive etc... Attraction is something you feel based on chemistry not only physical appearance. I would suggest if there are issues that you see someone about it, and try to change within yourself first. Maybe bring him to the counselling session as well. You can't make someone workout if they don't want to, but you can choose to change yourself.

Ok I'm pretty late to this post, but I have to comment. I love my husband no matter what, but yes I want him to be healthy also. Weight isn't always indicative of health though, so I think you need to be careful how you express yourself. My husband is very thin and strong and goes to the gym alot so he's toned, but I don't think he is healthy. He doesn't do alot of cardio and when he's not at home or I don't make his lunches he eats badly. He is lucky because he is really tall so he never gains weight...no one in his family does. As for me, I run....ALOT! And I go to the gym, and have a trainer. I eat well (most of the time) but I have some weight in certain areas that are not going to shrink and if anything will be accentuated with time and as my metabolism changes. I have lower than normal cholesterol, a strong heart etc... There needs to be a balance, and yes in some ways saying that you're embarassed of your husband is not a very nice thing to say...and if that's really how you feel then I agree with Alyssa and the other girls, maybe you need to think about what's more important to you. Marriage is about love and respect, and embarassment doesn't really factor into that equation. "For better or worse" right?

Before my wedding I was told that if I was booking with a charter and not through WestJet Vacations or Air Canada Vacations that there was always the risk that they could change the flights. It didn't happen to us, but I know other people that did have their flights changed and in some cases cancelled by Sunquest. You should talk to your TA.

Congratulations Connie can't wait to see the pictures!

Everything was so amazing!!! I've said this to you before, but I'll say it again anyways, your pics are hands down the best wedding photos I've ever seen! Fer did an amazing job and his style is incredible! I love it!!! yeyeyyeye! Congrats

Great review Erika! wow everything looks awesome, and you looked so beautiful! love the healed face!! hehe

we didn't mind not having the beach swimmable at all. When we did swim at the hilton the undertow was so strong that it took me 15 min to get out of the water and I felt like I was going to die. And that was with help from a rope, I seriously would never want to risk swimming in the dangerous area :S But the pools were so amazing! who wants salty water on them anyways

I'm glad you had a great time Jess, your pics looked beautiful

Everything looked so beautiful! I love the brown table cloths! Great pics congratulations

I need to make a mental note and try the tempura ice cream!

yikes thats not good maybe you'll love it once you get there

Fer did such an incredible job! Not only did he take amazing pictures but he captured what you and M are all about!! He was the perfect photographer for you and I everything happens for a reason!! it was meant to be just like you and M

Tammy I totally forgot about the amazing refried beans! yummm!!! they were the only thing I could swallow on my wedding day haha

Everything looks awesome!!! can't wait to hear all about it!

I agree with Carly, Tammy, TA Maureen and the rest of the girls. Every member on here is busy with our own lives, part of the reason to have a forum is so we can all participate. Starting multiple threads over the same topic and then saying its because you're too busy to search and participate in other threads is kind of disrespectful to everyone else who invests time into being an active participant. I don't think the comments were harsh at all.

omg I'm so hungry reading this right now lol

wooo good thread Erika!! this is going to put me in mood for Dreams again in a few months Here are my faves: Hitmatsu: all sushi mmmmm Oceana: Fish tacos, yummm and surf and turf....oh it was amazing! Portofino- tomato soup and the tomato and mozarella salad Seaside grille-dinner steak...can't remember which hehe seaside grill lunch: nachos and guac, I ate this every day! tortilla soup if they had it. El Patio: Omlete station with extra guac and hot sauce and the breakfast buffet Room Service: pizza I ate tortilla soup every chance I got! it was amazing...so whichever restaurant had it that day I ordered it...and I had guac with every meal lol Dreams food was so delicious, I really can't wait to go back...and I'm going to have to try the cheeseburgers (room service) this time as per Heather's suggestion.

Jenn welcome to the forum! Dreams is absolutely amazing! I was a bit hesitant as well after reading the Trip Advisor reviews, but honestly after I went there I loved it so so much. I am a total food snob and I loved everything at Dreams. Our friends also loved it so much they decided to get marride there as well this coming April 2010....so yey we get to go back for her wedding and our 1 year anniversary! Tammy is right, do a search for Dreams Cabo and read all the reviews, view the pics etc... Some of us that got married there also have our review links in our siggy enjoy!! You will love it

I would try to call her and see what she says. Texting isn't always the best way to communicate. Also, to play devil's advocate, I am the MOH in my friend's wedding in April. When she gave the deadline for her guests to pay, we didn't book either, because we were looking to get a better deal and the one that she had wan't that great. From Canada there are a number of different carriers that offer vacation packages, including AirCanada Vacations, Westjet Vacations, Sunwing, Sunquest etc... so maybe she's trying to find a better rate? Anyways, we just booked out packages to my friend's wedding last week, and we got it for $800 cheaper per person than the price she got us.

this is terrible! I hope that she is found soon.

Congratulations!!! It looks like such a fun time