Well said Alyssa. One of my best friends got pregnant and delivered about a month and a half before my wedding. She really wanted to come, and was even thinking to leave the baby with her mom for the week (CRAZY!!) When we talked about it though, it just didn't make sense. A wedding is important, but a baby is the ULTIMATE ACCOMPLISHMENT! You want to be there and spend every second with that little life, and your baby becomes your #1 priority. I think you should be super excited for your friends and family, because having a baby and getting pregnant is truly a miracle.