Quote: Originally Posted by azhuskergirl We're not having a bridal party. There will only be around 20 people at the wedding &, for us, it seemed silly to have what would be 25% of the attendees in our bridal party. Most of our closest friends will be there anyway, so we don't feel like we're missing out on anything. Totally agree! My FI and I will not be having a bridal party either (just flower girl and ring bearer) Like you said, all our friends will be there so what difference does it make if they are sitting down or standing up?! Especially if we are only going to have 25-30 people total at the wedding