BarefootBride

First off Jenny, WHO THE HELL INVITED HER TO THE WEDDING?... what table are you guys gonna be sitting at together? WTF? First of all..... You need to ask FI if he NEEDS her in his life? His answer should be no... but if its yes... you need to let FI go! Oh I feel horrible saying that... but its you or her... I would scare the living heck out of him and tell him that... it might take a few days for him to realize that you arent going to be in his life but honestly, if you are going to be his wife you and your happiness is NUMBER 1 and if he choses her well... its better to find out now than later because it looks like this ex girlfriend thing is going to come up all the time. As far as same circle of friends... umm this is not high school anymore, you and FI will find MANY other friends to hang with. You dont have to hang with your current circle of friends all the damn time. And if shes there I say ignore the biotch and FI better act nonchalant too... There should be absolutely no touching or flirting involved. If she crosses the line, FI need to get the courage enough to get her straight and walk away! You seem to have been going through this for awhile now, FI probably knows that you are going to eventually give in so he is not going to get rid of his friend for you.... thats probably so blunt and mean to say... but I mean no disrespect. I have been in your situation about a "friend". And I had to nip that crap in the bud because I know that I want to be with someone who puts me first and wants to see me happy... A EX like that would not settle well with me. I encourage you to stand up for your self (especially if you are having negative feelings about this girl) and tell him HELL NO!

glad you are back and everything went great!

Oh I love that dress! I would have bought it too if I was there!!! You lucky girl!!!!!

Oh its not just AL sweetie. Its everywhere!

Alyssa I dont think I can wait until September to hear about your wedding and resort. Are you going to check it out first? If so please let us know how it is. The bungalows reminds me of my resort in Fiji! I love bungalows!

scary but it was good that they fixed the problem sooner than later. 50k for that Im sure the 17 year older will need it... Just not sure if i would take it that far. I would be just happy to have my baby back!

Im so glad you girls are excited over Movie Maker... Im not... I have a project due like a few days ago. I havent even started. Ive done several projects in moviemaker. I just wish this current one wasnt for school.

Pretty. What are they? (Im sure its probably obvious... i just have no clue... sorry)

WOW! Betsy you look so pretty! I love your dads pink chucks!

youve inspired me to do a scrapbook for my shower. It wont look nearly as nice as yours though! Youre so talented!

Quote: Originally Posted by Rache1124 So, we are expecting about 38 people so far....how long do you think I should wait for everyone to book their trips? Most people have booked already...however there are a few people (a few friends and my brother) that say they are going to come, but haven't booked yet. I want to be respectful of the fact that it isn't a cheap trip, but at the same time, I want everyone to be booked so I know for sure what my numbers are and when everyone will be there...any thoughts on this? I think you should wait until the end of May. You will not have time one month before July to rush and worry about people. Its just not fair to you. I dont think our guest really consider that. I have one that says she is going... but my oot bags are specially made of each of my guest and well... I will be out of country (japan or US) to prepare for them. I dont want to waste my money.

So true liz. The stuff cost to much! I only wear it on special occasions so the good news is that it lasts me a really long time! I have never finished a tube of lipstick and it took me like 5 years to go through a compact of shiseido blush. Dont even talk about powder or stuff like that! I break it before I even get half way through it. Just think of it as an investment to all of your future special events.

Congrats Anny! I am glad to know that the baby is doing good. I hope she feels better. Rachel, youre a mess girl!! ..you had me believing you for a second!

i just got mine in the mail from redenvelope its a silver shaped shell thats engraved with our names date and location. We can use it as a tealight holder or trinket box. I think I will save it and pass it down to my kids. Maybe it will become a family heirloom or something.

Very nice! Your wedding seemed so classy and laid back! looks like you had fun! Oh I see youre moving to Japan! Yippieee!

Your pics were beautiful!

Awesome Pictures! I love your dress!

Nice Shots! It made me smile!

That is my greatest fear! I am so sorry!!! I hope you find it. Please let us know the update on this. BTW, you got some skinny fingers!

I like all 3 dresses!!

Send STD's first and then send invites later.

Its Official!! Happy planning!

Welcome! Bali is great (so I hear) A few of my friends just came back for a week long visit!

Very Nice!!!

Congratulations! Im glad you had a wonderful wedding! Cant wait to see pictures!