Quote: Originally Posted by Stormsong My ex was surprised....he didn't see it coming.
He was...abusive. Just took me a while to see it. He was angry ALL the time at everything. And took it out on me. I didn't clean enough, cook enough, the cats shed too much...everything was my fault. I just....realized i didn't want to spend my life like that. You know? I still wonder if i made a mistake....but...i don't think i did. I wasn't happy for a while...just...had a hard time admitting it to myself. <shrugs>
I still miss it though...the wedding planning. Anyone need any help? lol. Good for you! It's normal to feel like "..maybe I made a mistake, maybe things CAN work out..." but you are so smart for leaving now, while there are no strings attached and even worse, something else very bad could have happened. Again, good for you for being such a strong woman, I am SUPERR proud. When the time's right you will find a man who will give you the respect you so deserve, and you will once again be planning a wedding so dont sweat it ;o) In the meantime you have BDW gals to help and keep you busy, so dont be a stranger to the forum!
cheers