Jacqueline

Quote: Originally Posted by BachataBride I've had a really crappy holiday too. Christmas eve and Christmas night I just cried & cried. This is the first time I've had to spend Christmas away from my mom. Last year she came to visit for the holidays but this year with the wedding so close neither one of us couldn't afford to travel for Christmas. What made it even worse was that FI was working over the holidays too - days shift for xmas eve, xmas day & boxing day. Now he's working NYE until at least 11:30 tonight, but he will more than likely have to stay late (he's a police officer). What makes it even worse is that we are fighting - HUGE fight last night. And with only 3 weeks until our wedding it makes me sick to my stomach. He's PO'd because I want everything & we only have so much $$ to go around (the difference is his priorities for the $$ are diff than mine - but bc you are the bread winner doesn't mean you get to make all the financial decisions). And I'm PO'd at him for not helping out around the house more, and taking more responsibility for the dog (walks, etc). We can't sit & talk about it because it just turns into a big blow up and he storms off - or I do. I also sometimes feel like he doesn't love me - I know he does, but I just wish he would tell me (or at least tell me first instead of him saying I love you too all the time). And when I try to cuddle he puts on a screwy face and says no get away - he's only joking, but seriously.....every time you have to do this?? I'm sure with me it's mostly just the stress of wedding planning and with him it's the new house & the move. But sometimes I feel like I'm just going to have a breakdown!! My confession.... I wonder if this will stop or resolve itself?? I don't want to get married with all of this crap hanging over our heads....I guess we really need to sit down & hash this all out. Why does life have to be so compicated?? sorry this is happening. but first let me say that yes it will def work itself out. love conquers all! ;o) a lot of times wedding planning brings on stress and boys (not all but most imo) sometimes just dont get all the stuff involved with a wedding, so it is normal to fight around this time. but don't go into this with doubts, ya know? do you think he can sit and have an adult convo without turning it into a screaming match? i really hope things work out for you guys, i think it will. Quote: Originally Posted by plumsugar Jacqueline: This time last year I broke it off with my BFF - it was a very unhealthy relationship and I guess I never really had time to dwell on the situation because my wedding was only a few months away. So NYE this year rolls around and i'm starting to think about it ALOT. Not that I want to rekindle anything (NEVER LOL!!!), but you know...just sad it happened. I think another reason is that I recently switched jobs (was at my last one 5 years) so im a little sad/scared about all the changes that lie ahead. yes change def brings on those types of feelings. well start the new year as a new beginning, take this job on full force, and you will do great.

i think they are cute! i like big earrings but if youre not an earring wearing kinda gal, those are perfect i think b/c they arent too flashy, but just right. how big are they? im picturing on the smaller side, ?

YAYYY danielle, i just saw your ticker ;o)

Quote: Originally Posted by plumsugar I confess to feeling really down this holiday season although I've been putting on a brave face. I'm over eating because of it, which is the opposite reaction I have when I'm stressed. The over eating means I'm gaining lbs, which makes me even sadder. First time I really have the holiday blues - I hope I dont cry my eyes out when the ball drops aw how come? any specific reason? sorry if i missed something ( joe thinks i get depressed around the holidays, he said something to me a few nights ago that i always seem down around this time of year. i dont feel like i am depressed but i do sometimes get alil tiny bit down, but not sure why, haha. he said its normal for people to feel down. tonight ill drink my sorrows away ha

oh good thread, ill be taking notes so i have some ideas for drinks ;o) tonight ill be drinking crown royal and gingerale! have a happy and safe new year everyone!

i love it, it is soooo pretty!!!!! you glow in it girl! YAYYYYYY

you're so pretty.;o) both ways look really good on you. id say lighten it up for now and you can always go dark later if you want for the wedding. i have my hair red now, i just recently changed it but for the wedding im doing it dark brown again since thats my normal color. i think you still have alil time to have fun with it though.

VERYY pretty, i love it. the bm dresses are superrrr cute too! i want it.

hi girls. i actually have been going to the gym ) i have been using a week pass from fi. ive done cardio, and last night i did my abs and i am in such pain today, omg. tmrw will prob be worse! ha

) sure thing!!

so cute, i like the first ones you posted, you should totally get them! its a keepsake and a def conversation piece!

hm this is a tuff one.. is there any chance he'd consider just having them all? if it is really what you want, maybe you can talk to him and say its something that is very impt to you. if u had all your sisters, and he had his bros, each girl could have two guys walk beside her, that would look great i think. if you compromise i like catties idea, with involving them all somehow in the ceremony, and have your daughter stand beside you since she is going to be his daughter too....

Thank you! Merry Christmas and be safe! I can't believe the New Year is almost here.

happy birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

this sucks, what a shame. i truely think casey's parents were in denial as well, and just wanted to find caylee alive...i pray for them, they must be heart broken. it makes me sick how heartless and emotionless casey has been this entire time. casey has it comin to her in prison, thats for sure! theres another thread somewhere on this forum about this too, it was started awhile back by martha i think it was....

Quote: Originally Posted by lil_miss_frogg I found this Is that kinda what you are looking for? Below is the link where I found it! Etsy :: MiaVonMinksGarters :: Peacock Flapper Garter - 42k SO cute! ty! im going to check out that site u attached ;o))

I think its cool, im all about tattoos!!!!! joe and i are getting tattoos together but not sure what yet, we're supposed to go tom. YAY good luck and keep us posted!

removed ben affleck- ah just isnt sexy at all to me. 2. Matt Damon 3. Chace Crawford 4. Taye Diggs 5. Chris Meloni 7. Brad Pitt 8. Daniel Craig 9. Patrick Dempsey 10. Josh Brolin 11. Leonardo DiCaprio 13. Gerard Butler 15. Will Smith 16. Javier Bardem (JDM look alike) 17. Robert Downey Jr 18. Jake Gyllenhaal 19. Seal 21. William Moseley 22. Penn Badgley 23. Cristiano Ronaldo 24. Ryan Eggold 25. Brody Jenner 26. Tony Parker 27. Roger Federer 29. Aaron Yoo 30. Usher 31. Milo Ventimiglia 33. Enrique Islesias 34. Ryan Phillippe 35. Pharrell Williams 36. Jason O'Mara 37. Michael C. Hall 38. Will Arnett 39. Paul Rudd 40. Jamie Foxx 42. Chris DeWolfe 43. Gavin Rossdale 45. James Denton 46. Chris Botti 48. Antonio Banderas 50. Viggo Mortensen 51. Daniel Day-Lewis 55. Pierce Brosnan 56. Liam Neeson 57. Sting 60. George Clooney 61. Matthew McConaughey 63. Gael Garcia Bernal 64. Christian Bale 65. Mark Wahlberg 66. David Beckham 71. Ed Westwick 72. Robert Pattinson 73. John Krasinski 74. Tyson Beckford 75. Justin Timberlake 76. Josh Holloway 77. Scott Speedman 78. Josh Lucas 79. Jonny Lee Miller 80. Blair Underwood 81. Blake Shelton 82. Aaron Staten 86. Simon Baker 88. Tim Daly 90. Jon Hamm 91. Dominic Cooper 92. Mike Rowe 93. Robert Buckley 95. Neel Kashkari 97. Maksim Chmerkovskiy 98. Bel Silverman 100. Brayn Clay 101. Andre Balazs 102. Nate Berkus 103. Alex Ferrer 104. Todd Abrams 105. Juanes 106. Cayetano Rivera Ordonez 107. Ryan Reynolds 108. Nathan Gunn 109. Lewis Hamilton 111. Brian Cox 112. James Franco 113. Joshua Jackson 115. Donnie Wahlberg 116. Joey McIntyre 118. Danny Wood 121. Rafael Nadal 124. Rob Marciano 125. TJ Lavin 129. Lenny Kravitz 130. James Caviezel 131. LL Cool J 132. Jeremy Piven

they are very cute casey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! one more thing checked off the list huh?!!? congrats!!

danielle i love your holiday card, so cute. casey haha no i havent seen it but im sure its a piss.

christmas balls that is, my goodness you're a bunch or pervs! hehe what stores have the best xmas balls, decorations, etc for the tree? target, walmart, home depot, ? i havent gone ball shopping (ha) in a few years, ive been using the same old ones so what do you guys think? we're setting up tree this sunday.

Jenny im just seeing this now- that is AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And yes, everything certainly does happen for a reason! I'm so happy for you guys!!!!! YIPPPYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY It's good you didn't just settle for Le Meri, you have to pick what hotel has what you want and what makes you most happy! Congrats!

harty omg i feel the same way. i just want it to be done, i enjoy planning it all but recently i feel bored or just plain sick of it. lol but i need to continue planning though since its approaching fast! haha id rather have it all done now so i can enjoy it as it gets closer kwim? maybe take alil break and get back into after a few weeks. that is, if you dont need a lot done. im not sure where u are in your planning...

WOW how amazing is that? im sure the experience was awesome! i love turtles, thx for sharing!!

awwwwwwwwww poor guy. he seemed nice. its so hard to tell if G was a gold digger. i did belive her when she talked about it on the show, but than again is she just a good actress??! haha i think tamara said one time something like she isnt sure if she should give her an academy award or trust that she did love him. kaylee - whats the blog site you go on, is it really them??